Should a man have to ask about a child that he's unsure of or should the woman come and tell him?

A boyfriend and girlfriend brake up and the boyfriend didn't want to talk to her anymore and didn't even want to be her friend. She ends up being with someone else, sleeps with her new boyfriend and later finds out she is about 6 weeks pregnant and then calls her ex-boyfriend to try to find out the time between when they last slept with each other until the time she slept w/ her new boyfriend because she was unsure of who the father might be. Now, by this time the ex-boyfriend does not want nothing to do with her and the reason they broke up was because of the fact he was insecure, didn't trust her, thought she was using him, telling him lies, cheating on him, etc. So, therefore he was thinking stuff in his head, as usual, and assumed she was messing with his head and trying to pull a fast one on him, but he still made an effort to talk with her and they figured it out and came to a conclusion that the baby was not his. After that he tells her that he deosn't want nothing to do with her anymore and to stop calling him. Later on that same year, she calls him back anyway to tell him that she gave birth and to tell him how everything went. Well, he still has second thoughts about her and tries to tell her once again that he does not want nothing to do with her and as he tries to get off the phone with her, she sneaks in the fact that her new boyfriend said that he was not the father of the child. At this point in time, the ex-boyfriend doesn't want to hear no more about what she has to say, and plays it off as if he didn't hear what she said. He still had animosity towards her and after they hung up, he thought about what if the baby was his. He was hoping that maybe his assumptions were right and that maybe she did cheat on him while they were together and that she was lying about something. Of course, he started having paranoid thoughts. She knows that he was in the military, so he was paranoid about her and her boyfriend devising a plan to get money from him. But she can't get money from him without a paternity test anyway. So, he figured that if she didn't sleep with no one else, besides him and her new boyfriend, and she knew the baby was his, she would go to the courthouse or something to get the court to get him to do a paternity test, and if it turned out he was the father then he would handle his business as a man and take care of his duty. So, he waited. Days turned to weeks and weeks turned to months and he heard nothing from nobody. After a few years, he noticed her on the street at a mall and noticed the child with her. He wanted to take a look at the child but couldn't get a good look at the child's face. So, he stood his ground and waited for her to walk by and see if she would say something to him. She walked by him and smiled and said, '; What's up ';. He replied the same thing and that was that. After that, it has been bothering him inside about whether or not the child is his or not. He came to me and told me the story. I told him that if the baby was his she would of told him. Then he said, '; But what if it is mine and she is not telling me ';. So, then I said, '; Don't worry about it, because if she knew that it is your baby and she isn't telling you, then it is on her ';. A woman should never deprive her child of its father and a man should never have to walk up to a woman and ask if the child is his or not. It's stupid. He started making a big thing about it and began feeling guilty and such. So, I want to know what you think? Should a man have to go to a woman to find out about a child that he's not even sure is his or not, or should the responsibility fall upon the woman to tell the man? Would it be wrong if he does not ask his ex-girlfriend? I can only tell him my opinion, I want to know yours. Thank You.Should a man have to ask about a child that he's unsure of or should the woman come and tell him?
If he is worried he should have a paternity test done so he knows for sure and can be in the clear ... or take responsibility. I think it is OK for him to approach her and ask for it to be done.

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