Dear Sharayha, I'm sad that you're moving. When you told all of us you were moving, I almost cried, but i couldn't. All I could do was sit, smile, and laugh because of you, Zanny, and Rachel were having a good time during 5th period. I hope this coming week will be really fun for you since it's the last time you're going to be here. You know, when you first cam to school in the 8th, I barely knew you. I knew you were Trevor and Libbie's friend, but nothing more. Then I got to know you, you became my friend, no wait you became my best friend. As much as I don't want you to go, you have to. It'll be good for you, you'll meet new people, have other really great friends, and you may forget about me but that's fine. There's this very cheedy quote I hope you'll remember, '; Together forever, but never apart, maybe in distance but never in heart.'; I love you like a best frien, and hope to never lose you. We need to keep in contact, chill at the mall, and do that AHHHMB thing every time we see each other. I'll miss that, and the fact that you always put your arm around mine, and I may seem not to like it, but I do. It remind me of how you'll be there for me as I'll always be there for you. If you ever need someone to talk to just call me, text me, or just yell my name from across the room, I'll be there. It's very hard for me to write this letter because i might brake out crying . I know men don't cry (which isn't true) but I'll miss you. I'm writing this before the ROTC thing tomorrow, so I hope we have a lot of fun! Once you leave, I may just grow my hair out, straighten it and turn goth, but I'm not dying it black on the occassion that i'm white as sour cream! I still find it funny how you got Andrews number! Are you really going to talk to him? I may just keep that skull necklace thing because it's just to cool. I still need good picture of you so i can put it in my wallet, but only if it's okay with you. When you get to your new school find a red-head like me, so you can forget about me lol. I also hope you find a boyfriend that isn't so ****ing mean to you, I don't know how you put up with that. Have a wonderful Christma. I finally know what I want for Christmas, it's for you to stay here! But I know that's not gonna happen. Hope you and your moms boyfriend get along. You'll always be my best friend
Love/Sincerely, JerrickMy best friend is moving and I wrote her a letter, can someone review it for me? Tell me what they think.?
leave out the *******, it ruins the mood, but every thing else is extremely thoughtful and im glad you bothered to write her something as sweet, to take with her
return the favour ?
http://au.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind鈥?/a>My best friend is moving and I wrote her a letter, can someone review it for me? Tell me what they think.?
Sounds good.
i think thiss is veryyy nice of youuu;
i wishh i had a friend like you.
haha
hope you twoo stayy friendsssssss
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thats so sweet.....i like it...and i think she's lucky to have a friend like you... good luck and i hope you guys stay friends. :-)
Friday, August 20, 2010
Is it wrong for me to feel this way?
I've been with the same boyfriend since 1rst grade. Between then and 6th grade we have dated off and on. Then through 7th and now (10th grade) we have been more serious. I love him with all my heart and want to marry him. The thing is that I kinda have this thing with another guy. I just like him and love being around him, but I know he could never be has good as my bf now. Well, would it be wrong for me to just break up with my bf now and go with the other guy. I really don't think it will work out between me and the other guy but I still want to give it a try. My bf says no matter what he will be waiting for me so if me and the other guy brakes up, I can still go back to my bf I have now. I mean look how long me and my bf have been together, sometimes I just wonder what it would be like to date another. I love my bf with all my heart and want to spend the rest of my life with him...but would a small break from him hurt? Please give my your best advice.Is it wrong for me to feel this way?
IF YOU ARE FEELING SOMETHING ELSE FOR SOME OTHER GUY, THEN YOU ARE NOT REALLY IN LOVE. YOU ARE IN LOVE WITH THE IDEA OF LOVE.
NOW WE USE THE TERM ';LOVE'; SO LOSELY THAT WE SAY ';I LOVE THOSE SHOES,'; BUT BECAUSE YOU HAVE BEEN WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND FOR A LONG TIME YOU HAVE GROWN TO CARE ABOUT HIM IN MANY WAYS. YOU BOTH HAVE BECOME GOOD FRIENDS.
PERSONALLY, I THINK YOU SHOULD NOT THINK ABOUT ANY KIND OF RELATIONSHIP AND CONCENTRATE ON YOURSELF AND ENJOYING YOURSELF. I BELIEVE THAT THE BEST TIME TO FIND THAT PERFECT SOMEONE IS WHEN YOU HAVE ACCOMPLEISHED AND DONE ALL THOSE THINGS THAT YOU WANT TO DO WITH YOUR LIFE.
AFTER THAT, YOU WILL BE READY TO SAY I LOVE HIM AND WANT TO MARRY AND CREATE A FAMILY.
YOU HAVE A WHOLE LIFE AHEAD OF YOU THAT DEEP DOWN INSIDE YOU ARE WANTING TO ENJOY, BUT YOU ARE SO CONCERNED WITH HURTING YOUR CURRENT BOYFRIEND BECAUSE YOU DON'T WANT TO LOSE HIM. YOU DON'T WANT TO LOSE SOMETHING SECURE IN YOUR LIFE.
FIRST SECURE YOURSELF EMOTIONALLY AND ASK YOURSELF WHAT YOU REALLY WANT FOR YOU AND TRY IT FOR A TIME. YOU WILL KNOW WHEN YOU ARE READY FOR ANYTHING FURTHER.Is it wrong for me to feel this way?
It would be a risk, because I think it would hurt your boyfriend.
On the other hand, you're still very young and haven't dated anyone else - no wonder you are looking at other guys. A break for both of you might do you some good, otherwise you'll always be wondering what you missed out on.
There's always the chance that your boyfriend will date someone else as well, and might like her better. But that's what life is like - you gotta make choices; you gotta take risks.
I'd be inclined to go for the break and see what happens - be prepared for an outcome you don't expect.
it would probably be good for you to experience what it's like to be with someone else. it will probably just make you appreciate your current boyfriend more. but remember... if you break up with him you are taking a chance that he might not want you back.......
You dated in 1st grade? That is sick.
yes chose one and tell him that you love him
I have never understood this ';break'; thing, you are either together or not.
you say you love him with ALL your heart,that's not true.
if you did...you would not think as you do.
break up and if it does not work, he will be there to take you back?
if he does he is truley a fool in love.
I am not to judge, but look...you have someone who loves you and you say you love him too,why chance it?
I will not dog you because of how you feel, you asked.
no don't do it unless he thinks it's okay. but if you love him you wouldn't do it .
You can not love the b/f with all your heart,and have a thing with this other guy.Everybody needs space,but a break you could take a chance of loosing him and not getting him back.
Go for it you are not married. Now is the time later you will be married.
There is nothing better than try another winds, because when you try other guys, you will find what is what YOU want, maybe what you have with your BF is an obligation, or maybe not, the only way to be 100% sure is to stay with your BF because you want it, not because you have no choice, after dating other guys you will know for sure how you feel for your BF.
I think it would hurt him regaurdless of what he says.. Boys or men tend to say that they wait for u and then u find out that the didnt or won't. But tell him what u just told us. And if he takes it the wrong way its on him. You got to experince all u can to see what u want.
I hate to have to say this to you, but you don't love him with all your heart. He has become a for sure thing, familiar, comfortable and taken for granted. You both should take a break and really find out if you both are really right for each other. That is a long, long time to have ever been committed to just one person at the different ages of your life. You are having doubts, as you have nothing to compare this with....it has always just been there. I would encourage you both to take time to find out all of your likes and dislikes. It is like you have only had strawberry ice cream your whole life and wondering if there might be something you like better. Date others and what is meant to be will happen if you know what you want. You will never have this time back again in your life, so enjoy it.
You should date often and be non commital. There are way to many men out in the world and you need the experience to be with someone else. How else will you know that your current bf is the right one?
just do it but ,whats good for the goose is good for the gander
first, who on earth dates since first grade? wow, you've got a serious cory-topanga complex...but i want that so much. NEVER, EVER leave the one you love for the one you like. The one you like will leave you for the one they love, and the one you love may just move on if you use them.
it depends me personally i think you all should have tried to experiment earlier before now because if you leave him now he might not take you back.
Your young and you need to experience.Trust me I've had those kinds of feelings before.Life is to short to pass up something like this and you never know he just might be the guy for you.And if not then you van go back out with your Boyfriend.
IF YOU ARE FEELING SOMETHING ELSE FOR SOME OTHER GUY, THEN YOU ARE NOT REALLY IN LOVE. YOU ARE IN LOVE WITH THE IDEA OF LOVE.
NOW WE USE THE TERM ';LOVE'; SO LOSELY THAT WE SAY ';I LOVE THOSE SHOES,'; BUT BECAUSE YOU HAVE BEEN WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND FOR A LONG TIME YOU HAVE GROWN TO CARE ABOUT HIM IN MANY WAYS. YOU BOTH HAVE BECOME GOOD FRIENDS.
PERSONALLY, I THINK YOU SHOULD NOT THINK ABOUT ANY KIND OF RELATIONSHIP AND CONCENTRATE ON YOURSELF AND ENJOYING YOURSELF. I BELIEVE THAT THE BEST TIME TO FIND THAT PERFECT SOMEONE IS WHEN YOU HAVE ACCOMPLEISHED AND DONE ALL THOSE THINGS THAT YOU WANT TO DO WITH YOUR LIFE.
AFTER THAT, YOU WILL BE READY TO SAY I LOVE HIM AND WANT TO MARRY AND CREATE A FAMILY.
YOU HAVE A WHOLE LIFE AHEAD OF YOU THAT DEEP DOWN INSIDE YOU ARE WANTING TO ENJOY, BUT YOU ARE SO CONCERNED WITH HURTING YOUR CURRENT BOYFRIEND BECAUSE YOU DON'T WANT TO LOSE HIM. YOU DON'T WANT TO LOSE SOMETHING SECURE IN YOUR LIFE.
FIRST SECURE YOURSELF EMOTIONALLY AND ASK YOURSELF WHAT YOU REALLY WANT FOR YOU AND TRY IT FOR A TIME. YOU WILL KNOW WHEN YOU ARE READY FOR ANYTHING FURTHER.Is it wrong for me to feel this way?
It would be a risk, because I think it would hurt your boyfriend.
On the other hand, you're still very young and haven't dated anyone else - no wonder you are looking at other guys. A break for both of you might do you some good, otherwise you'll always be wondering what you missed out on.
There's always the chance that your boyfriend will date someone else as well, and might like her better. But that's what life is like - you gotta make choices; you gotta take risks.
I'd be inclined to go for the break and see what happens - be prepared for an outcome you don't expect.
it would probably be good for you to experience what it's like to be with someone else. it will probably just make you appreciate your current boyfriend more. but remember... if you break up with him you are taking a chance that he might not want you back.......
You dated in 1st grade? That is sick.
yes chose one and tell him that you love him
I have never understood this ';break'; thing, you are either together or not.
you say you love him with ALL your heart,that's not true.
if you did...you would not think as you do.
break up and if it does not work, he will be there to take you back?
if he does he is truley a fool in love.
I am not to judge, but look...you have someone who loves you and you say you love him too,why chance it?
I will not dog you because of how you feel, you asked.
no don't do it unless he thinks it's okay. but if you love him you wouldn't do it .
You can not love the b/f with all your heart,and have a thing with this other guy.Everybody needs space,but a break you could take a chance of loosing him and not getting him back.
Go for it you are not married. Now is the time later you will be married.
There is nothing better than try another winds, because when you try other guys, you will find what is what YOU want, maybe what you have with your BF is an obligation, or maybe not, the only way to be 100% sure is to stay with your BF because you want it, not because you have no choice, after dating other guys you will know for sure how you feel for your BF.
I think it would hurt him regaurdless of what he says.. Boys or men tend to say that they wait for u and then u find out that the didnt or won't. But tell him what u just told us. And if he takes it the wrong way its on him. You got to experince all u can to see what u want.
I hate to have to say this to you, but you don't love him with all your heart. He has become a for sure thing, familiar, comfortable and taken for granted. You both should take a break and really find out if you both are really right for each other. That is a long, long time to have ever been committed to just one person at the different ages of your life. You are having doubts, as you have nothing to compare this with....it has always just been there. I would encourage you both to take time to find out all of your likes and dislikes. It is like you have only had strawberry ice cream your whole life and wondering if there might be something you like better. Date others and what is meant to be will happen if you know what you want. You will never have this time back again in your life, so enjoy it.
You should date often and be non commital. There are way to many men out in the world and you need the experience to be with someone else. How else will you know that your current bf is the right one?
just do it but ,whats good for the goose is good for the gander
first, who on earth dates since first grade? wow, you've got a serious cory-topanga complex...but i want that so much. NEVER, EVER leave the one you love for the one you like. The one you like will leave you for the one they love, and the one you love may just move on if you use them.
it depends me personally i think you all should have tried to experiment earlier before now because if you leave him now he might not take you back.
Your young and you need to experience.Trust me I've had those kinds of feelings before.Life is to short to pass up something like this and you never know he just might be the guy for you.And if not then you van go back out with your Boyfriend.
My boyfriends parents found out we had sex in their house?plz help!?
i go often to my boyfriends house and we usually have sex with out them knowing..but today they found out we had sex because my boyfriend forgot to trow away the condom and they found it i think they are disapointed because he said his parents are mad but they are ok with me still going to his house i dont beleive it because to some parents is disrespectfull for their sons to have sex in their house especially because we are both 16...also me and him have been having problems im thinking about braking up wit him because i dont think i could look at his parents after what happen what should i do please help?? if your a parent tell me how you will react??My boyfriends parents found out we had sex in their house?plz help!?
i would be disappointed and shocked if i were his parents. your so young. you shouldnt be having sex and it doesnt sound like you even like this boy.My boyfriends parents found out we had sex in their house?plz help!?
I would be happy you're using protection.
i would be disappointed and shocked if i were his parents. your so young. you shouldnt be having sex and it doesnt sound like you even like this boy.My boyfriends parents found out we had sex in their house?plz help!?
I would be happy you're using protection.
Where to find a good looking guy that doesnt just want to get down your pants... lol?
kay so im 15 and i live in utah.
the stuff in the middle doesnt really matter lol
i pretty much fell for a guy two years older and we dated for a while like two months, and then we fingered and stuff and he asked me out that night. i said yes and all we started doing was physical stuff. we fought alot and it didnt even seem like we liked each other. he said that his ex asked him to promanod so he asked her to prom. which was probably a lie or it was more him then her. so he said that we would take a brake until prom. because we wernt doing good and they would have practices and would probably hang out. he said that nothing would happen but if it did he didnt want to cheat on me. since then we have hooked up alot and hungout. but we ALWAYS do sexual things. we have broken it off and got back together alot. it is always because i was with another guy or he was with a girl.. one ( i wasnt mad i just herd who it was and that she gave him a hand job the second time they hung out!) that was the last fight. he kept calling and yesterday we hung out and had like the best time ever! then prom is tonight and i wasnt alowed to go or wanted to because im only a freshman but him and his date got in a fight he chewed her out then begged for her to still go and she said no. and this girl has a boyfriend but he is 24. so he asked me and i said i couldnt then he asked this beotch... and they are going and no one else in the group like her at all. any ways i know he wants to have sex on his prom night.... and he will try.
any ways how do i find a good guy? there is no one in our school! iv searched and its not like guys dont like me they are all just players looking for a hook up or freshman or sophmores. and not that thats bad i just dont like them at all! i really want a good guy! sorry this is so so so long i really need to get over him!Where to find a good looking guy that doesnt just want to get down your pants... lol?
This is easy. If you find a guy you like, don't let him get very far until you know he likes you for you and doesn't only want you for sexual things. Just say no. If he likes you for you, he'll wait.Where to find a good looking guy that doesnt just want to get down your pants... lol?
Stop being a slut and a whore.
Don't be so easy for guys and they'll actually work for you.
Which develops into something more than sex.
That was harsh, sorry.
your still in school, and you will find someone eventually, dont freak out over this stuff, its stupid, your life shouldn't revolve around men
Sounds to me like you need a band geek. They'll treat you right. That guy is using you by the way.
Damn, I wish girls your age in california were that slutty. no wonder utah has that statutory rape law.
haha usually
In church
Try church
This is way too long to read, but don't go looking for anyone..let someone come to you!
Just because you're having a hard time getting over your last boyfriend (sorry, I didn't read the middle part), doesn't mean you need to start dating someone else. You're only 15 years old, sheesh! Just be yourself and you'll eventually find a guy that you like. As they say, you should never go looking for love... Let love find you!
Oh! I use to live in Layton, Utah before I moved to Japan. I miss it :/
But anyways, I'd just let the right guy come to you.
If you really want to find a guy though, I'd go to the mall and just scout out guys there and like approach them and just talk and say ';Hey'; or something.
Or go to where guys usually hang out, like the gym or a skate park and talk to them. Just remember to be yourself when your are around a guy that you like!
You'll find the right guy! Just be patient! (:
Most guys over 13 or 14 seem to mainly think about sex. Some guys mature more than others and can think about other things besides sex, like a girl that will just be there for you. School is currently my somewhat priority. I cant say main priority becasue I cant give all my attention to something as boring as that. Also, some guys dont understand the meaning of no. Trust me, some of my friends are just like that, but not everyone. All I can really say from here is good luck in your search and not all of us are like that.
firstly- to scott- at my school all the band guys are man-whores and the girls are bitches sleeping with the man-whores. baddd idea.
secondly. if you want a good guy. look at religious guys. many of them are cute. and you know basically that they are going to me more reluctant to do that sort of thingss.
be careful now,.. try looking in the library during lunch, or after school? older guy got theres and just want to add it up b4 they finish school...you may get some heat from it from your friends (friends come and go, the ones that care stay close)but if theres a nerd in there him be your friend learn to be your man- add don take him away from his studies-AKA homework, once he starts failing thats the begining of the end...you have total control-U GO GIRL, dont break to many hearts
first, you stop being so easy. Don't let him get anything.
if he actually likes you and doesn't just want sex he will stick around for a long time.
to the guy below me suggesting band geek, i was in the band, you have no idea how many sex stories I've heard from what happened in the band room alone.
I'm sorry to tell you this, but the guy was using you. It's ok though, everyone goes through this period and will regret it but it's normal and all you did is experiment.
Try things like hanging out with your friends from other schools, church, social clubs, playing sport and even hanging out in areas of places where you know people who share similar interest as you will be. Wait for Uni as right now guys only have one thing on their mind and it’s SEX! Don’t fall for it and just wait till you get older and the boys will mature and then not only go out with you for one thing.
Be smart and don’t fall for stupid tricks and the fact that you like him, he knows what he is doing to you and you’re just being used. All you are to him is another piece of reusable meat.
Anyways I'm basically saying just wait till boys mature and have had their fun and want to commit.
Woooooooooooow guys are so difficult!! and funny enough i ask myself this same question every bloody day lool
yeah i agree.. let them come to you.
But when you find out where you can purchase them let me know ;)
lol
Good Luck xx
Generally the ones worth finding are the ones you have to woo a little first. Just find a guy who's a little quieter and not trying to get with you right off the bat and strike up a conversation, you may find a date or another good friend. As far as that old boyfriend... think for a second. What reason would someone have in college, with drunk girls abound, to try to date someone 9 years younger then him? The reason? Everyone anywhere NEAR his age knows he's a creep. I'm sorry.myspace icons computer protection
the stuff in the middle doesnt really matter lol
i pretty much fell for a guy two years older and we dated for a while like two months, and then we fingered and stuff and he asked me out that night. i said yes and all we started doing was physical stuff. we fought alot and it didnt even seem like we liked each other. he said that his ex asked him to promanod so he asked her to prom. which was probably a lie or it was more him then her. so he said that we would take a brake until prom. because we wernt doing good and they would have practices and would probably hang out. he said that nothing would happen but if it did he didnt want to cheat on me. since then we have hooked up alot and hungout. but we ALWAYS do sexual things. we have broken it off and got back together alot. it is always because i was with another guy or he was with a girl.. one ( i wasnt mad i just herd who it was and that she gave him a hand job the second time they hung out!) that was the last fight. he kept calling and yesterday we hung out and had like the best time ever! then prom is tonight and i wasnt alowed to go or wanted to because im only a freshman but him and his date got in a fight he chewed her out then begged for her to still go and she said no. and this girl has a boyfriend but he is 24. so he asked me and i said i couldnt then he asked this beotch... and they are going and no one else in the group like her at all. any ways i know he wants to have sex on his prom night.... and he will try.
any ways how do i find a good guy? there is no one in our school! iv searched and its not like guys dont like me they are all just players looking for a hook up or freshman or sophmores. and not that thats bad i just dont like them at all! i really want a good guy! sorry this is so so so long i really need to get over him!Where to find a good looking guy that doesnt just want to get down your pants... lol?
This is easy. If you find a guy you like, don't let him get very far until you know he likes you for you and doesn't only want you for sexual things. Just say no. If he likes you for you, he'll wait.Where to find a good looking guy that doesnt just want to get down your pants... lol?
Stop being a slut and a whore.
Don't be so easy for guys and they'll actually work for you.
Which develops into something more than sex.
That was harsh, sorry.
your still in school, and you will find someone eventually, dont freak out over this stuff, its stupid, your life shouldn't revolve around men
Sounds to me like you need a band geek. They'll treat you right. That guy is using you by the way.
Damn, I wish girls your age in california were that slutty. no wonder utah has that statutory rape law.
haha usually
In church
Try church
This is way too long to read, but don't go looking for anyone..let someone come to you!
Just because you're having a hard time getting over your last boyfriend (sorry, I didn't read the middle part), doesn't mean you need to start dating someone else. You're only 15 years old, sheesh! Just be yourself and you'll eventually find a guy that you like. As they say, you should never go looking for love... Let love find you!
Oh! I use to live in Layton, Utah before I moved to Japan. I miss it :/
But anyways, I'd just let the right guy come to you.
If you really want to find a guy though, I'd go to the mall and just scout out guys there and like approach them and just talk and say ';Hey'; or something.
Or go to where guys usually hang out, like the gym or a skate park and talk to them. Just remember to be yourself when your are around a guy that you like!
You'll find the right guy! Just be patient! (:
Most guys over 13 or 14 seem to mainly think about sex. Some guys mature more than others and can think about other things besides sex, like a girl that will just be there for you. School is currently my somewhat priority. I cant say main priority becasue I cant give all my attention to something as boring as that. Also, some guys dont understand the meaning of no. Trust me, some of my friends are just like that, but not everyone. All I can really say from here is good luck in your search and not all of us are like that.
firstly- to scott- at my school all the band guys are man-whores and the girls are bitches sleeping with the man-whores. baddd idea.
secondly. if you want a good guy. look at religious guys. many of them are cute. and you know basically that they are going to me more reluctant to do that sort of thingss.
be careful now,.. try looking in the library during lunch, or after school? older guy got theres and just want to add it up b4 they finish school...you may get some heat from it from your friends (friends come and go, the ones that care stay close)but if theres a nerd in there him be your friend learn to be your man- add don take him away from his studies-AKA homework, once he starts failing thats the begining of the end...you have total control-U GO GIRL, dont break to many hearts
first, you stop being so easy. Don't let him get anything.
if he actually likes you and doesn't just want sex he will stick around for a long time.
to the guy below me suggesting band geek, i was in the band, you have no idea how many sex stories I've heard from what happened in the band room alone.
I'm sorry to tell you this, but the guy was using you. It's ok though, everyone goes through this period and will regret it but it's normal and all you did is experiment.
Try things like hanging out with your friends from other schools, church, social clubs, playing sport and even hanging out in areas of places where you know people who share similar interest as you will be. Wait for Uni as right now guys only have one thing on their mind and it’s SEX! Don’t fall for it and just wait till you get older and the boys will mature and then not only go out with you for one thing.
Be smart and don’t fall for stupid tricks and the fact that you like him, he knows what he is doing to you and you’re just being used. All you are to him is another piece of reusable meat.
Anyways I'm basically saying just wait till boys mature and have had their fun and want to commit.
Woooooooooooow guys are so difficult!! and funny enough i ask myself this same question every bloody day lool
yeah i agree.. let them come to you.
But when you find out where you can purchase them let me know ;)
lol
Good Luck xx
Generally the ones worth finding are the ones you have to woo a little first. Just find a guy who's a little quieter and not trying to get with you right off the bat and strike up a conversation, you may find a date or another good friend. As far as that old boyfriend... think for a second. What reason would someone have in college, with drunk girls abound, to try to date someone 9 years younger then him? The reason? Everyone anywhere NEAR his age knows he's a creep. I'm sorry.
I'm 17 years old and I'm going to turn 18th on November 08 2009 is it possible for me to move in with your 27?
we been going out for a 1 year and 2 months...... as we say that were practically married to one another. our love was like destiny and.. its seems like faith is the one that brought us to one other.
we start going out when i was 16 years old... he was still 25 then...things was not planed as i call it AN Accident!!.. ( in a good way)... we met cause of his father. He's father married my dads cousin. things didn't go right between him and his father lots of drama was involved. one night the was a big fight went on between him and his father at my dads friends party and that night my parents offered him our home for him to lived in. 1st few months we say hi and bye that's it... we talk but a short conversation only.. after he got back from California... 1 month after me and him spend more time with each other.... he gets off work the same time i gets off school.. we eat with each other make fun of one another... some things.. that we don't normally do... some times I'll just catch my self staring at him......i mean don't get me wrong i know that I'm attractive and i can go find guys my age but for some reason no matter what i do it faith just keep leading me to him. and this all happen in a month .. we go eat out..he's treat my treat.. don't matter.. both of us pitch in.... we both fell in love at 1st we were both scared and insecure about our age... because im the type of gurl that will flirt around i mean.. im not a hoe or n e thing but i just like to hang out with guys and play around with them a couple of time that i make in insecure to the point that he want to just give up about us..... . but for some reason.. and for the very 1st time... i hold him.. tight and say ';baby don't go...'; after.. things wur good between us.. our relationship was on DOWN LOW so my parents wont find out..not just my parents anyone else as well.. my brother will always have friday and.. Saturday night party..not abig party but a party that everyone just kicked it... drink smoke,, talk .. gamble... even then.. people start noticing us... they always say that there was a chemistry between us....... our everyone start to notice BUT my parents... but our relationship was pretty much out in public. my parents start noticing something.. soo he moved out...but yet they still didnt have any clue
thats how everything begins... now that.. our love was stronger that ever.... i mean we will have doubts here in there.. but... we get past that... ..but after that everything was good between us.. my parents found out..... my mom caught him in my room one morning... ..things was .. not a pretty good site .. everyone was just shock and didnt then there was a decisions that was made that he cant bother until i get done with schoool.. we both agree but that dosent mean we will get out of my life .. my mother wanted him to despair she forbidden everything talking to him seeing him... even at my JOB... it huts soo much..... but.. yet.. we both still see each other... he'll come to my work... during my brake... its hard... but yet.. we get thought that .... my mother.. trid to check up on my at my job.. she saw her car there.. then.. thas when everything start going out of control.. life sucks at that point of time..., i ran away... i lived with my cuzins for a little bit... cuzz... he didnt want to make everything worst.. when i tried to settle down.. my mom tried to put my boyfriend in jail... she wanted him behind bars.. ';is it really a crime to fall in love with some';.. but she didnt succeed.. i was at my cuzins for a good month... until my father... talked to me.. once again.. and.. tried to convinced me to come home but yet.. i had... an agreement.. that once june 2009 comes.. im moving out......and im going to stay with my boyfriend for good..... but even my dad didnt want me to.. he said yess just for me to come home.......... after wards there was arguments here and there but... everything was better.............. i will go see him... every week end and.. i spend time with him when ever i can....... but that holiday past.. everything rough again.... economy was ******* up... soo... poeple wur losing jobs here and there.. at 1st the company cut of my boyfriends hours.. soo.. i help him.. to settle with everything.,.,. like i will go shop food .. do what ever i can to help.. i supported him.... for at least a little bit.. even he had a job...it was not paying him.. enough for rent and food....he thought that.. maybee its better for him to move back to California with his family mom and sister... he left the beginning of feb. b4 3 weeks b4 our one year anniversary .... didnt get to see him for two months.. everynight will talk to each other.... have arguments here and there but hay... thats how LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP works.... but spring brake... i went to go visit him and his family they welcome me... like one part of there family... things was great.... during the time that i was there.,... we both talked about extending ouI'm 17 years old and I'm going to turn 18th on November 08 2009 is it possible for me to move in with your 27?
You can move in with whoever you want at 18. I moved in with my ex husband when I was 16, he was 26. The relationship lasted 24 years. During that time we married twice (each other). Once when I was 21 %26amp; the second time when I was 28. We had 2 children together, one when I was 27 %26amp; the other when I was 35. We did not separate because of age, age was never the problem. My daughter is 13 with someone 16. People yell at me all the time like I'm a bad parent because of it. She gets A's %26amp; B's, is a cheerleader.He really does care about her, I'm not saying they will be together forever, I don't know. What I do know is that people of all ages have feeling's. And that he really does care about her %26amp; is not using her.I'm 17 years old and I'm going to turn 18th on November 08 2009 is it possible for me to move in with your 27?
not in Missouri, I'm not sure it might vary state to state. Look up the legal age in your state
No laws prohibit you from moving in with anybody after your 18.
wow that is alot to read!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
we start going out when i was 16 years old... he was still 25 then...things was not planed as i call it AN Accident!!.. ( in a good way)... we met cause of his father. He's father married my dads cousin. things didn't go right between him and his father lots of drama was involved. one night the was a big fight went on between him and his father at my dads friends party and that night my parents offered him our home for him to lived in. 1st few months we say hi and bye that's it... we talk but a short conversation only.. after he got back from California... 1 month after me and him spend more time with each other.... he gets off work the same time i gets off school.. we eat with each other make fun of one another... some things.. that we don't normally do... some times I'll just catch my self staring at him......i mean don't get me wrong i know that I'm attractive and i can go find guys my age but for some reason no matter what i do it faith just keep leading me to him. and this all happen in a month .. we go eat out..he's treat my treat.. don't matter.. both of us pitch in.... we both fell in love at 1st we were both scared and insecure about our age... because im the type of gurl that will flirt around i mean.. im not a hoe or n e thing but i just like to hang out with guys and play around with them a couple of time that i make in insecure to the point that he want to just give up about us..... . but for some reason.. and for the very 1st time... i hold him.. tight and say ';baby don't go...'; after.. things wur good between us.. our relationship was on DOWN LOW so my parents wont find out..not just my parents anyone else as well.. my brother will always have friday and.. Saturday night party..not abig party but a party that everyone just kicked it... drink smoke,, talk .. gamble... even then.. people start noticing us... they always say that there was a chemistry between us....... our everyone start to notice BUT my parents... but our relationship was pretty much out in public. my parents start noticing something.. soo he moved out...but yet they still didnt have any clue
thats how everything begins... now that.. our love was stronger that ever.... i mean we will have doubts here in there.. but... we get past that... ..but after that everything was good between us.. my parents found out..... my mom caught him in my room one morning... ..things was .. not a pretty good site .. everyone was just shock and didnt then there was a decisions that was made that he cant bother until i get done with schoool.. we both agree but that dosent mean we will get out of my life .. my mother wanted him to despair she forbidden everything talking to him seeing him... even at my JOB... it huts soo much..... but.. yet.. we both still see each other... he'll come to my work... during my brake... its hard... but yet.. we get thought that .... my mother.. trid to check up on my at my job.. she saw her car there.. then.. thas when everything start going out of control.. life sucks at that point of time..., i ran away... i lived with my cuzins for a little bit... cuzz... he didnt want to make everything worst.. when i tried to settle down.. my mom tried to put my boyfriend in jail... she wanted him behind bars.. ';is it really a crime to fall in love with some';.. but she didnt succeed.. i was at my cuzins for a good month... until my father... talked to me.. once again.. and.. tried to convinced me to come home but yet.. i had... an agreement.. that once june 2009 comes.. im moving out......and im going to stay with my boyfriend for good..... but even my dad didnt want me to.. he said yess just for me to come home.......... after wards there was arguments here and there but... everything was better.............. i will go see him... every week end and.. i spend time with him when ever i can....... but that holiday past.. everything rough again.... economy was ******* up... soo... poeple wur losing jobs here and there.. at 1st the company cut of my boyfriends hours.. soo.. i help him.. to settle with everything.,.,. like i will go shop food .. do what ever i can to help.. i supported him.... for at least a little bit.. even he had a job...it was not paying him.. enough for rent and food....he thought that.. maybee its better for him to move back to California with his family mom and sister... he left the beginning of feb. b4 3 weeks b4 our one year anniversary .... didnt get to see him for two months.. everynight will talk to each other.... have arguments here and there but hay... thats how LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP works.... but spring brake... i went to go visit him and his family they welcome me... like one part of there family... things was great.... during the time that i was there.,... we both talked about extending ouI'm 17 years old and I'm going to turn 18th on November 08 2009 is it possible for me to move in with your 27?
You can move in with whoever you want at 18. I moved in with my ex husband when I was 16, he was 26. The relationship lasted 24 years. During that time we married twice (each other). Once when I was 21 %26amp; the second time when I was 28. We had 2 children together, one when I was 27 %26amp; the other when I was 35. We did not separate because of age, age was never the problem. My daughter is 13 with someone 16. People yell at me all the time like I'm a bad parent because of it. She gets A's %26amp; B's, is a cheerleader.He really does care about her, I'm not saying they will be together forever, I don't know. What I do know is that people of all ages have feeling's. And that he really does care about her %26amp; is not using her.I'm 17 years old and I'm going to turn 18th on November 08 2009 is it possible for me to move in with your 27?
not in Missouri, I'm not sure it might vary state to state. Look up the legal age in your state
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No laws prohibit you from moving in with anybody after your 18.
wow that is alot to read!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
How do you get your man to stop taking speed?
my boyfriend who i am meant to marry in october is using needles and i don't know should i stay or should i go i love him so much but sometimes he treats me like **** he thinks hes always right but he has never hit me or done bad crap like that but i'm stuck i have a baby to him and i love him so much it would brake my heart if he left but i don't like the path he going down he says hes givin up but now he smokes weed please i'm going out of my mind should i marry this guy or ahould i leave now before i have more children and more debts with him.How do you get your man to stop taking speed?
Love does make you do dumb things....hardest part in all of this is taking you out of the equation. You already have one child with him, and the longer you stay its more likely you wont leave until that one day he does jeopardize your family with his drug use. It's inevitable, today weed, tomorrow needles, next week its cocaine....where does it stop? Your child didn't have a choice in who its parents should be. One thing is true, a child is a product of its environment. Think 10+ years from now...your baby is also using needles and smoking weed, what would you do?
You start a family with someone who makes you a better person and helps you to grow. I don't know the whole story, but write down a pro/con list...take yourself out of the picture and see if its worth leaving him. Good luckHow do you get your man to stop taking speed?
Leave him. That might do the trick...but if not, you've still benefited the situation. For yourself, anyway.
Guys like that DO NOT change until they want to. They are selfish, and often see the only problem is that YOU have a problem with their choices. They only care about themselves, or they would have gotten help for their addiction a long time ago.
You should not have had kids with this man. But it's too late to change that. You can only change your future now. Take your children and get out. That is no situation for a child.
Perhaps one day he really will clean up his act and you can get married and live a normal life. But don't sit around waiting for him to do that.
Good luck.
run...fast and far away...the opposite direction of him
Trust me. Cut your losses now and DO NOT MARRY HIM!!! He has issues that you will not be ready to handle. Have him seek counseling .
Basically comes down to how much you love and trust him and you need to sit and talk with him when he is not high and you need to see if he will get the help he needs. If he won't get help and stop then I seriously think you should leave him it doesn't look good for the child that you have.
Good luck!
If you leave while you still love him then there is a chance that he will realize what he is losing and straighten up, then you can work things out.
If you wait till you hate him, which you will eventually as his addiction and behavior worsen, then it's already over.
If you leave and he never gets his act together then not having your kids there to see it is a good thing.
I know crank and I am sorry for your situation,
who you meant to marry? and you have a baby. think about your family, and get out you want a drugged up baby? and you said he doesnt treat you good....LEAVE he sucks
Leave him now.
Neither your baby nor you needs his crap in your life.
He doesn't care enough about you to change his ways, then dump him. He won't live long.
Leave. And I am speaking from experience.
OMG!! Get out. You have a baby and he is smoking weed! Bad enough second hand cigarette smoke, much less weed. He is on a downward spiral and you are going with him if you don't get out and break all contact with him.
Why do you want to be treated like crap? Just because he hasn't hit you (yet) doesn't mean that he is not abusing you. He is emotionally abusing you if he treats you badly.
Please, for your sake and your baby's....leave now! Go to a friend's house or family member.
***are you serious? This guy is trash. Why are women so self destructive? Why would you question staying or leaving?***
I second that.....
get out of there. maybe it will be a wakeup call for him and if not you are better off moving on while he ruins his life
Postpone the wedding. Get your man in rehab. If he doesn't clean up his act then you need to leave.
are you serious? This guy is trash. Why are women so self destructive? Why would you question staying or leaving?
At the least i would try to delay the wedding until you know how you really feel. This situation is not safe for you, your fiance or your child at the moment.
I wish i could help you more but it is your decision in the end.
Try to find a book called Women who love too much by Robyn Norwood. It goes through the challeneges of living with someone addicted and can help you get through it.
Good luck. I hope it gets better for you
Of course it is always going to be hard to end a relationship with anyone you are close with. It is going to be heartbreaking, but what do you think will be more heartbreaking in the end? Do you want to worry about what he is doing for the rest of your life? Do you want to worry about where he is going? What he spent his money on, etc? That's no way to live. You may love him, but think about what your future would be like, let alone the future of your unborn children.
Love does make you do dumb things....hardest part in all of this is taking you out of the equation. You already have one child with him, and the longer you stay its more likely you wont leave until that one day he does jeopardize your family with his drug use. It's inevitable, today weed, tomorrow needles, next week its cocaine....where does it stop? Your child didn't have a choice in who its parents should be. One thing is true, a child is a product of its environment. Think 10+ years from now...your baby is also using needles and smoking weed, what would you do?
You start a family with someone who makes you a better person and helps you to grow. I don't know the whole story, but write down a pro/con list...take yourself out of the picture and see if its worth leaving him. Good luckHow do you get your man to stop taking speed?
Leave him. That might do the trick...but if not, you've still benefited the situation. For yourself, anyway.
Guys like that DO NOT change until they want to. They are selfish, and often see the only problem is that YOU have a problem with their choices. They only care about themselves, or they would have gotten help for their addiction a long time ago.
You should not have had kids with this man. But it's too late to change that. You can only change your future now. Take your children and get out. That is no situation for a child.
Perhaps one day he really will clean up his act and you can get married and live a normal life. But don't sit around waiting for him to do that.
Good luck.
run...fast and far away...the opposite direction of him
Trust me. Cut your losses now and DO NOT MARRY HIM!!! He has issues that you will not be ready to handle. Have him seek counseling .
Basically comes down to how much you love and trust him and you need to sit and talk with him when he is not high and you need to see if he will get the help he needs. If he won't get help and stop then I seriously think you should leave him it doesn't look good for the child that you have.
Good luck!
If you leave while you still love him then there is a chance that he will realize what he is losing and straighten up, then you can work things out.
If you wait till you hate him, which you will eventually as his addiction and behavior worsen, then it's already over.
If you leave and he never gets his act together then not having your kids there to see it is a good thing.
I know crank and I am sorry for your situation,
who you meant to marry? and you have a baby. think about your family, and get out you want a drugged up baby? and you said he doesnt treat you good....LEAVE he sucks
Leave him now.
Neither your baby nor you needs his crap in your life.
He doesn't care enough about you to change his ways, then dump him. He won't live long.
Leave. And I am speaking from experience.
OMG!! Get out. You have a baby and he is smoking weed! Bad enough second hand cigarette smoke, much less weed. He is on a downward spiral and you are going with him if you don't get out and break all contact with him.
Why do you want to be treated like crap? Just because he hasn't hit you (yet) doesn't mean that he is not abusing you. He is emotionally abusing you if he treats you badly.
Please, for your sake and your baby's....leave now! Go to a friend's house or family member.
***are you serious? This guy is trash. Why are women so self destructive? Why would you question staying or leaving?***
I second that.....
get out of there. maybe it will be a wakeup call for him and if not you are better off moving on while he ruins his life
Postpone the wedding. Get your man in rehab. If he doesn't clean up his act then you need to leave.
are you serious? This guy is trash. Why are women so self destructive? Why would you question staying or leaving?
At the least i would try to delay the wedding until you know how you really feel. This situation is not safe for you, your fiance or your child at the moment.
I wish i could help you more but it is your decision in the end.
Try to find a book called Women who love too much by Robyn Norwood. It goes through the challeneges of living with someone addicted and can help you get through it.
Good luck. I hope it gets better for you
Of course it is always going to be hard to end a relationship with anyone you are close with. It is going to be heartbreaking, but what do you think will be more heartbreaking in the end? Do you want to worry about what he is doing for the rest of your life? Do you want to worry about where he is going? What he spent his money on, etc? That's no way to live. You may love him, but think about what your future would be like, let alone the future of your unborn children.
Why am i so jealous of my boyfriend's ex girlfriend?Help?
I don't know why but i just am,it really hurt's me because a long time ago when me and him started going out how he would tell me about how he had dry sex with her and made the bed brake from it,it was a long time ago but it made me unconfortable because i sleep in that bed now,i know i souldn't let anything like this get to me because it was before me but idk why,also it really bothered me when he told me he threw away all the picture's he had of her,but i got curious and i looked in his drawer's and found ton's of them,why did he lie to me about that?also i was cleaning his closet out and i found this costume he bought for her it was all sexual,and it made me upset and also the fact that he kept it,it this naturall?i don't want to sound like a loser but how would you feel about this? boy and girl answer.
Another thing,he told me not to long ago about the wet dream he had,and i asked,hoping it was about me and then he said oh it was before i met you,that really made me mad because he never had one about me once,but he did with someone else?wev'e been together for almost a year,I felt like slapping him across the face and telling him he was a f-ing jerk,and why he would even tell me something like that if it wasn't about me?why would i want to know,i feel like you just don't go off saying that to your girlfriend,because that make's them feel like they need to be more attractive,and it made me insecure.
And also i wasn't going to let him get away with that lie,i took all the picture's and cut them up and flushed them down the toilet for good,
but if he ever see's them he will get the letter i left in the picture folder,it say's'; i cut those picture's of you and that s.l.u.t up,after all you said you didn't want them,i thought i would do you a favor';.Why am i so jealous of my boyfriend's ex girlfriend?Help?
you might consider therapy...
Another thing,he told me not to long ago about the wet dream he had,and i asked,hoping it was about me and then he said oh it was before i met you,that really made me mad because he never had one about me once,but he did with someone else?wev'e been together for almost a year,I felt like slapping him across the face and telling him he was a f-ing jerk,and why he would even tell me something like that if it wasn't about me?why would i want to know,i feel like you just don't go off saying that to your girlfriend,because that make's them feel like they need to be more attractive,and it made me insecure.
And also i wasn't going to let him get away with that lie,i took all the picture's and cut them up and flushed them down the toilet for good,
but if he ever see's them he will get the letter i left in the picture folder,it say's'; i cut those picture's of you and that s.l.u.t up,after all you said you didn't want them,i thought i would do you a favor';.Why am i so jealous of my boyfriend's ex girlfriend?Help?
you might consider therapy...
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