Friday, August 20, 2010

Anyone been with sombody who's on drugs? And they disappaer for no reason?

My boyfriend has an addiction to crystal meth. He was being distant last week. This week i haven't herd $hit from him cause is phone off he didn't pay the bill. But I don't give a $hit he can call me somehow. It's been off for four days now. We didn't get in a fight or nothing. And i asked him straight up do you wanna brake up? Ru mad at me whats the deal? He said no i don't nothing's wrong. Weird weirdness. I went to his house today he wasn't home only his brother i grabbed my belongings. We been together nine months this about the third time he has done this act distant out of nowhere. I don't know maybe hes high,selling, drugs with somebody I don't know. Have you gone through this . I think its an emotional roller coaster and devastating I hate it. Also what do addicts do so important that they cant contact you?Tell your story and how did u deal?Anyone been with sombody who's on drugs? And they disappaer for no reason?
Honey, run for your life. Addicts only have 1 God, 1 Woman that they're faithful to (and in this case, her name is Crystal) and 1 reason for getting up everyday. Why do you expect to be placed in front of his drug priorities?????? You need to really study up on addiction behavior, and you will see. If he's been like this ever since you two met, then face the fact- he's NEVER been yours.


Some women are subconsciously attracted to dudes who have ';you can't have me'; issues, like drug addicts, married men, emotionally unavailable men. I highly suggest that you type in the words, ';Emotionally unavailable men'; and start learning about what it is that causes you to want this loser. Also, type in ';relationship red flags'; and ';relationship deal breakers'; and start learning how to tell the difference between the men and the boys so you can choose better next time.Anyone been with sombody who's on drugs? And they disappaer for no reason?
He has a reason for disappearing. He's probably hanging out with his friends and doing drugs. Before he drags you down, encourage him to get help. If he won't listen, you need to let him go.
You need to let him go... You can find so much better out there.
Uhmmm..a toughie ?!


I think if you feel as if your on an emotional rolocoaster..get off of it..you can't keep putting yourself in danger..
you can do so much better. either tell him to get help, or get out. sorry to put it bluntly, but if you were happy then i'd be saying something different. the fact that you say it's an emotional rollercoaster and you're devestated proves he makes you unhappy and therefore i think you are best to move on to someone that will treat you well and really appreciate you. good luck :)
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