How pathetic am I...?

I posted another question on here last week about my boyfriend who really wants to have sex with me. We are only 14 and I didn't know if I was ready or not. But I couldn't tell him no. I was so stupid and I just let it happen! I avoided him in school all week! And he called on Thursday and asked if I wanted to go out on Friday. But I told him I had a family thing. So he asked about Saturday and I said I would have to check with my parents. He is kinda catching on and asked ';Since when do you ask your parents for permission!?'; So then I just told him that I had to go. Now he is really mad at me and I don't know what to do!? I don't feel comfortable around him anymore. But I have a feeling he is going to come over today uninvited because that's just the way he is. And because my friend Tim said he was going to come over my house.





Am I pathetic or what? I don't want him to brake up with me, I really like him but I don't feel comfortable around him? What do I say to him and why can't I feel comfortable anymore?How pathetic am I...?
It appears you are consumed with guilt over your decision to ';just let it happen'; when you knew in your heart it was the wrong thing to do. That's why you are no longer comfortable around this guy. Tell him it was a mistake and that you don't want to repeat it. If there is really any substance to the guy and the relationship he'll stick around. If not, he won't.


Either way you should learn the important life lesson to be true to yourself first and foremost and as long as you don't get pregnant or get an STD this will be a valuable and relatively painless way to learn that lesson.How pathetic am I...?
you werent ready for sex therefore your mind is making you feel this way. your mind is trying to tell you to get out of this situation as soon as you can or its going to happen again. honestly you need to break up with him and stay far away from him dont give in to him EVER again. whats the point in being with a guy you just like but dont feel comfortable around. you'll never be able to have a real relationship with him.
you can't be around him and still together. how about this idea: TALK to him about having sex and how you feel right now. If he flips out or is not sympathetic, good bye! Otherwise you have something to work with and on before you have sex again. I hope you used protection, otherwise you next question on here will be ';am I pregnant';...
Don't have sex, You should watch videos of teenage mum's in hell after giving birth. If i were you i would wait until marriage at least. If all he wants is sex then kick him out and move on.
That's why you don't have sex at 14. You wait.
U certainly aren't pathetic..However i would like to mention that you were stupid enough to treat such an important decision in life, so carelessly..But just in case this helps, You've made a mistake that many others have..Try speaking to a school counselor because the more u keep it to yourself, the more you will b confused..And finally,break up with the boy because he' isn't right for you..If he really loved you, he would've never forced you in the first place..think about it! Hope i helped.

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