My ex G/F family loves me , she is going out with her ex B/F and her family hates the guy.i want her back!!!?

we broke up 4 weeks ago ... my ex G/F family loves me the mom, dad, sisters,uncles, aunts, grama, grampa, even her brother is my bestfriend.... and she went back with her ex B/F DAVID and her family hates the guy to death ... her aunts and uncles say '; why did yoU brake up with him hes cuter, better, funnyer, and has the brains then your EX B/F david whos a drop out and a drug delar and the guy treats her like **** ..and her family tells her to brake up with her ex b/f david and to come back with me... and her family always tell her stuf.. to comeback with me... the ex B/F dosent speak a word to her family not even a hi or anything..


i still talk to her brother, aunts, uncles, and her mom and dad everyday or other day.. ..her and her ex boyfriend david have been going out for 2 weeks.... i talk to her once in a while but thats it...today her dad invited me to PIZZA HUT but no her ex boyfriend..








do i give it time???





how can i get her back??





do i invite her to places with her brother???

















i love her alot , i want her back.... help plzzzz...


My ex G/F family loves me , she is going out with her ex B/F and her family hates the guy.i want her back!!!?
If you want her back you go get her back!My ex G/F family loves me , she is going out with her ex B/F and her family hates the guy.i want her back!!!?
if he is all thi bad stuff and she stays with him shell just pay the price but you can try to take her out of the black hole.





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How did u broke up,anyway? no point in her family loving u when she doesn't..
Well, when it comes down to it, the family's opinion doesn't mean ****. Sorry, but it's her opinion that matters (obviously). Trying to get to her through her family is probably just going to appear incredibly pathetic %26amp; weaselly to her since it's sort of a form of emotional blackmail.





I think that you should talk to her once more. Tell her how much you care for her, how stable you are, %26amp; that you could do so much more for her than her ex. Whatever you do, don't sling a lot of mud at her boyfriend. All that's going to do is p*ss her off %26amp; cause her to not listen to you. I really get the impression that this is futile since it's been 4 weeks %26amp; she hasn't come back to you or given you anything to show that she still wants to be with you. Like I said, what her family thinks doesn't mean **** since she's going out *AGAIN* with someone that her family hates. Just b/c they like you doesn't mean that she will.





In the end, if she doesn't take you back, you need to just move on. I know it's painful, but you can't force another person's emotions. If she doesn't love you enough, she doesn't love you enough. The more you try to make her love you (by going through her parents, ect), the more you will push her away from you. If she does end up saying no, accept it %26amp; tell her that you will always be a friend to her if she needs one. Don't push yourself on her as a friend, but let her know that you are just a phone call away. Make it her choice to call you, not you calling her.





Also, stop hanging out with the family. That's just drawing your pain out %26amp; to be honest, you are really just using them right now. I'm not saying that you aren't friends, but right now you're using them as a way to try to brainwash your ex girlfriend into going back out with you. They deserve better than that %26amp; so do you.
Some women who think the guy she is going out with is too perfect, tends to be more attracted to the bad boy. It's not logical of course, it's an emotional thing. A gal who I worked with had a relationship with a guy who spent 9 months in jail, he also was a drug dealer, she did drugs also...The guy came to work after he got out of jail, almost every day to see her...She talk to her on the phone and she was almost late for work many times. Finally she just walked out and quit work. Apparently still with the guy, who going to help destroy her future if she doesn't leave him.





I would go after her, I would send flowers, love notes, anything it would take to win her back...If you truly love her and want her back, go for it...Don't let that looser win!