Friday, August 20, 2010

Friend problem help please?

Okay me and my friend are 11 years old and she has had this boyfriend for like 3 months now. They've been hugging, kissing on the cheek, kissing on the lips, and now making out (with tongue). It's really weird/nasty to me and my other friends because we well, hate her boyfriend but we've been nicer to him lately because they're going out. So they have this on and off thing but they don't brake up they just get really pissed at each other and that makes me and her other friends mad but since they're so IN LOVE (i guess) they stay together and currently are. But like 2 days ago my friend confronted her about how we feel (like her boyfriend is a jerk, the kissy crap is nasty and other stuff like that) so now after that when i text her she questions me a lot %26amp; she barely talks to me. I mean today she said she liked my shoes then walked away, during lunch she sat down with us for like 5 mins then went to a table where she hates all these people but she was having a better time with them then us. She was acting like she used to (happy giggly and bubbly) around THEM but when she was with us just a sad out of place look. But later on she told me that she wasn't looking forward to her next period with her boyfriend. So i was guessing they fought and she like hates him. But during school it seems like a completely different story because she kisses him on the cheek and giggles and puts her arm around him and hangs around him. I don't know what its about but all of that made 1 of my current friends hate her guts now :( I don't cause in the beginning we were besties but now we're just like acquaintances so I'm tired of it and need your advice it'll help alot thanks :)Friend problem help please?
Eleven is really young to have a boyfriend. Guys are soooo immature to begin with and being young won't help the situation. It will just make everyone mad at each other. Remember, best friends before boyfriends. Anyway, she shouldn't be mad at you for telling her how you feel. Tell her that you just want things to go back the way they used to be, and if she doesn't understand, she isn't worth your time.Friend problem help please?
Treat her like the person she is ! Smile when smiled at and don't go out of your way to do anything with her, unless she wants to kiss or anything like that. I think that would be ok and not crossing any lines, just make sure that she has a nice clean tongue ! Play safe get plenty of photo's to remmeber the time and make sure to post them !
Kay FIRST OF ALL, ELEVEN Years old is WAAAYYY Too Young for Tongue Kissing!! It will Lead to Nasty stuff Early!! (like Doing it in High School!) Every time she Kisses him Say: ';Kay Seriously!! That's Nasty! Tongue Kissing is WAAYY Too Early for you guys!! TAKE IT SLOW! Because If He Brakes up with You, You WILL Be Hopeless!!'; And If she gets Angry, Don't take it Personally, She'll come back, Because This Happened to my Friends And I Said EXACTLY That.. And my Friend like Didn't even LOOK At me ever since But ONCE He broke up with my Friend, Ran to me FIRST. You Warned her. That's all you need to do. And if she doesn't come back then I Don't think you should hold on to somebody like that because sooner or later, She'll influence you to do stuff like that.
That's too young. Your friend is acting older than she is. She will likely move on to more adult things quicker than you or your other friends and you just might need to let go. She is going to be tough to keep up with and why would you want to get into such trouble so early anyway.





Not all friendships last. Stick with the ones you have and let her go. No need to be mean. You simply don't have much in common anymore.
Wow dating and making out at 11 years old. That's horrible. She needs to dump that guy. ELEVEN? Ew you guys shouldn't even be thinking about boys yet! She doesn't know what she wants right now. She's trying to keep you guys and her bf but eventually she'll choose.
Maybe she's confused weather to choose her boyfriend or her friends. I don't think your friends should have told her anything. Friend's feelings always come first. Your friend should have never done that because your friend was happy with her boyfriend. But now you guys messed it up because she cares about you guys and doesn't know what to do. If she didn't care than she would have just left you guys for good. And she was probably happy with the other ppl at lunch because they don't have a problem with her boyfriend like you do. And anyways when you really like someone you can't really help kissing them and acting like that. Its just how love is and you'll know what we mean when you get a boyfriend that you really like. you should understand your friend and don't tell her anything bad about her boyfriend. Just remember that as long as your friend is happy you should be happy too
okay first of all, evrtim u see her kissing or whatevr, smak her across the face. and tell her to be a person who love boys. if she want to be lesbo then keep smaking her %26gt;:)
11 years old and are making out? that's weird. ya they need to break up.
thats kinda gross at 11, im 16, and ive only had one boyfriend and one girlfriend, but i broke up with both of them, but anyway, back to the Q, my best friend has been acting the same way, but she doesnt have a boyfriend or anything, she just randomly started acting that way, so i think you should confront her about it, thats what i think im going to do, :)

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