the stuff in the middle doesnt really matter lol
i pretty much fell for a guy two years older and we dated for a while like two months, and then we fingered and stuff and he asked me out that night. i said yes and all we started doing was physical stuff. we fought alot and it didnt even seem like we liked each other. he said that his ex asked him to promanod so he asked her to prom. which was probably a lie or it was more him then her. so he said that we would take a brake until prom. because we wernt doing good and they would have practices and would probably hang out. he said that nothing would happen but if it did he didnt want to cheat on me. since then we have hooked up alot and hungout. but we ALWAYS do sexual things. we have broken it off and got back together alot. it is always because i was with another guy or he was with a girl.. one ( i wasnt mad i just herd who it was and that she gave him a hand job the second time they hung out!) that was the last fight. he kept calling and yesterday we hung out and had like the best time ever! then prom is tonight and i wasnt alowed to go or wanted to because im only a freshman but him and his date got in a fight he chewed her out then begged for her to still go and she said no. and this girl has a boyfriend but he is 24. so he asked me and i said i couldnt then he asked this beotch... and they are going and no one else in the group like her at all. any ways i know he wants to have sex on his prom night.... and he will try.
any ways how do i find a good guy? there is no one in our school! iv searched and its not like guys dont like me they are all just players looking for a hook up or freshman or sophmores. and not that thats bad i just dont like them at all! i really want a good guy! sorry this is so so so long i really need to get over him!Where to find a good looking guy that doesnt just want to get down your pants... lol?
This is easy. If you find a guy you like, don't let him get very far until you know he likes you for you and doesn't only want you for sexual things. Just say no. If he likes you for you, he'll wait.Where to find a good looking guy that doesnt just want to get down your pants... lol?
Stop being a slut and a whore.
Don't be so easy for guys and they'll actually work for you.
Which develops into something more than sex.
That was harsh, sorry.
your still in school, and you will find someone eventually, dont freak out over this stuff, its stupid, your life shouldn't revolve around men
Sounds to me like you need a band geek. They'll treat you right. That guy is using you by the way.
Damn, I wish girls your age in california were that slutty. no wonder utah has that statutory rape law.
haha usually
In church
Try church
This is way too long to read, but don't go looking for anyone..let someone come to you!
Just because you're having a hard time getting over your last boyfriend (sorry, I didn't read the middle part), doesn't mean you need to start dating someone else. You're only 15 years old, sheesh! Just be yourself and you'll eventually find a guy that you like. As they say, you should never go looking for love... Let love find you!
Oh! I use to live in Layton, Utah before I moved to Japan. I miss it :/
But anyways, I'd just let the right guy come to you.
If you really want to find a guy though, I'd go to the mall and just scout out guys there and like approach them and just talk and say ';Hey'; or something.
Or go to where guys usually hang out, like the gym or a skate park and talk to them. Just remember to be yourself when your are around a guy that you like!
You'll find the right guy! Just be patient! (:
Most guys over 13 or 14 seem to mainly think about sex. Some guys mature more than others and can think about other things besides sex, like a girl that will just be there for you. School is currently my somewhat priority. I cant say main priority becasue I cant give all my attention to something as boring as that. Also, some guys dont understand the meaning of no. Trust me, some of my friends are just like that, but not everyone. All I can really say from here is good luck in your search and not all of us are like that.
firstly- to scott- at my school all the band guys are man-whores and the girls are bitches sleeping with the man-whores. baddd idea.
secondly. if you want a good guy. look at religious guys. many of them are cute. and you know basically that they are going to me more reluctant to do that sort of thingss.
be careful now,.. try looking in the library during lunch, or after school? older guy got theres and just want to add it up b4 they finish school...you may get some heat from it from your friends (friends come and go, the ones that care stay close)but if theres a nerd in there him be your friend learn to be your man- add don take him away from his studies-AKA homework, once he starts failing thats the begining of the end...you have total control-U GO GIRL, dont break to many hearts
first, you stop being so easy. Don't let him get anything.
if he actually likes you and doesn't just want sex he will stick around for a long time.
to the guy below me suggesting band geek, i was in the band, you have no idea how many sex stories I've heard from what happened in the band room alone.
I'm sorry to tell you this, but the guy was using you. It's ok though, everyone goes through this period and will regret it but it's normal and all you did is experiment.
Try things like hanging out with your friends from other schools, church, social clubs, playing sport and even hanging out in areas of places where you know people who share similar interest as you will be. Wait for Uni as right now guys only have one thing on their mind and it’s SEX! Don’t fall for it and just wait till you get older and the boys will mature and then not only go out with you for one thing.
Be smart and don’t fall for stupid tricks and the fact that you like him, he knows what he is doing to you and you’re just being used. All you are to him is another piece of reusable meat.
Anyways I'm basically saying just wait till boys mature and have had their fun and want to commit.
Woooooooooooow guys are so difficult!! and funny enough i ask myself this same question every bloody day lool
yeah i agree.. let them come to you.
But when you find out where you can purchase them let me know ;)
lol
Good Luck xx
Generally the ones worth finding are the ones you have to woo a little first. Just find a guy who's a little quieter and not trying to get with you right off the bat and strike up a conversation, you may find a date or another good friend. As far as that old boyfriend... think for a second. What reason would someone have in college, with drunk girls abound, to try to date someone 9 years younger then him? The reason? Everyone anywhere NEAR his age knows he's a creep. I'm sorry.
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