Wednesday, August 18, 2010

What would you do if this happened with your bf?? Need advise bad =(?

ok so I was with my boyfriend for a year, everything was great until he would spy on me alot stalk me and time me..Then when I got a car he will follow me everywhere started to time me an exact time When I was lunching with my friend he timed my entire time there and it totally freaks me out! He follows my every move and brakes up with me because i don't tell him what i'm exactly doing.He gets really angry at me when I go somewhere he said he wants me to be home and the only time I can go out is when my daughter has a doc appt. So we broke up and I told his mom how he was and she didn't believe me I told my mom and sister whats going on and they said that isn't normal it can lead to something worst is it bad that I broke up with him because of that..? I was scared for my daughter and myself..=((What would you do if this happened with your bf?? Need advise bad =(?
Stay away from him, he's crazy.


And find someone smart to ask advice from because you sound very sweet but you don't sound very smart.What would you do if this happened with your bf?? Need advise bad =(?
Your mom and sister are right if he is showing those kind of signs as just a boyfriend imagine what he would do if you got married? There are a lot of case studies were men like that walk into the relationship as a perfect prince charming and then slowly start to do the things you mentioned the last step of those signs are you being a prisoner in your own home.





Trust me it was a great decision to leave him!
c'mon, this person is sick. he doesn't trust you, if he doesn't trust you why should you continue the relation. if you continue the relation it is going to get worst, if you do not continue for few days you may have little trouble after that everything will be alright. i would say leave that sick person.
he is a control freak. u need to communicate to him and let him know how u feel. either he is doing something behind your back like cheating, or he has alot of trust issues. Also, beware stalkers can be dangerous sometimes.
Leave him, he's controlling and thats a sign of abuse...





a controlling man will do nothing but make your life a misery, you're not even married yet and look at what he's doing. Sweety leave him if not for your sake then for your daughters sake.
That is abuse for sure. You need to stay away from him! If he continues to stalk you and all that crap, you need to get a restraining order for you and your daughter. That's not safe at all!
you need to break up and then if he is still lurking around file a police report and if it gets worse you can call and they will handle it accordingly.
No... He wasn't good to keep. You were right for dumping him. He is a total control freak and it's a good thing that you stopped things before it got worse.
he sounds creepy, Its not worth it to be with him, hes controlling your life, be happy hes gone find someone you wont have to worry about like that.
You are definitely better off. He sounds crazy. Move on.
You are lucky to be rid of him. If he continues to bother you just go to the authorities. I'm sure there is something that can be done.
no its not bad that you broke up with him because of that. if someone was a stalking me, i would be scared too, + i would hav done the same thing :)
CALL THE POLICE HES A STALKER
Oh wow, you did good in breaking up with him. That's scary.
hes gone now you will be fine.
he is possessive which is very bad. not healthy. all in all it will end in tears., you did the right thing
you did the right thing just move on
its good that u broke up with him that guy freaks me out!
You did the right thing and you should stick to your decision. His behavior was very controlling and not justifiable at all.





When you trust someone, you shouldn't feel a need to keep tabs on where they are at all times or demand that they stay at home. You shouldn't feel a need to control them and give them those kinds of ';rules.'; His behavior shows that he was an insecure person who didn't trust you, and trust is a huge part of successful relationships.





You deserve to be with someone who respects you enough to believe that having lunch with a friend doesn't mean you're cheating. Again, please stick to your decision, becuse you're right in suspecting that this behavior will only get much worse the longer you're with the guy.
THANK GOD U LEFT HIM





NO OFFENSE BUT R U RETARDED SOMEHOW?





OF COURSE U HAD TO LEAVE THAT GUY WAS A TOTAL CREEEP FCKIN STALKIN AND BEING OVER CONTROLLING





IF U DIDNT LEAVE HIM HE WOULD BEAT U AND UR DAUGHTER





SEE SITATIONS FROM A 3rd PERIOD VIEW





got it?





and btw i hope u do well in life and best wishes for ur daughter!!





UR DAUGHTER IS THE MOST IMP THING IN UR LIFE RIGHT NOW





SHE DONT NEED A CREEP SCREWING UP HER LIFE

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