I am going out with my friends ex, and she still likes him?!?

My friend went out with this kid, and they broke up last year i liked him a little while after they were no longer together. then i found out he liked me, so i wated a year to tell my friend and she said she didnt like him she liked someone else. so i ask him out he said yes we have been dating for 11 months. My friend said she still likes him and i should brake up with him for her. I know u shouldnt go out with your friends ex but i really like him, i asked her how much she liked him and she likes him a little less then i do, but still if he likes me why dump him?? also she was mad at me for all the time i liked him whitch would be about two years. what gets me pissed is i only see him every two weeks for the weekend, and she is mad if i want to spend time with him over her. im sorry but is it wrong to want to spend time with your boyfriend 3 days every two weeks and then your friend every other time?! i dont c why she is mad, but oh well please helpI am going out with my friends ex, and she still likes him?!?
yeaa well im in sorta situation like that...well my mate went out with lad for about 2 months and me and her ex might meet up ive asked her lots of time if its okay and she said yea but i think she might not be but she hasnt told me ..i dont know what to do?! and she dumped him too





well i think its wrong of her tellin you to break up with him to be fair...and 11 months is a long time you cant just throw it away and 3 days every 2 weeks isnt alot really...but i can see why she is hurt as its her ex boyfriend but maybe if he dosnt like her she should move on...I am going out with my friends ex, and she still likes him?!?
Dating your friends ex is a line you never should have crossed in the first place, but since you did, don't break up with him just because she likes him. If he likes you, stay with him.
Your friend is a *****. I'm sorry. She said she didn't like him before and you were a great friend just to wait a year so not to hurt her feelings. If she was lying about not liking him, that's her problem..you asked her and she lied and now you're together and you're happy. She should understand and feel happy for you since they already broke up and it's not like he cheated on her with you so she has no reason to be pissed. However it is sometimes hard to get over an ex...especially if she still apparently likes him. Talk with her and try to make her understand that you're going to continue spending time with her. If she continues being stubborn....she doesn't deserve your friendship.





Good luck!
you should not feel obligated to dump your bf just because your friend asked you to. even though you shouldn't date your friend's exes, you did ask her how she felt about him. she may have been lying when she said that she didn't like him, but that is her fault for not being honest with you.
She is just jealous b/c you worked out with him and she didnt. If she was a real friend she shouldnt be hating on you. And you dont owe her any explanations or never the less dump him b/c she said. She is just upset b/c you are doing very well with him. So you need to clear this up and hey she said she didnt like him anymore and now she does a little less then you.**** f her. She is just a dumb pal.And dont you dare listen to her, but do what you want to do ok. Dont let her ruin what you have with him. And you can spend whatever time you like with him and please let me guess all those other days you are with her. Just let her be all bitter while you my dear stay happy b/c someone loves you back ;)
OK hi well i think that you should tell your friend how much you like this boy and tell her she had her chance and she blew it so now that you and this boy have been dating for 11months your friend should not dare ask u to break up and tell her next time this would not happen if she would have told you in the first place that she still liked him.....because if she was mad at you two years she like him since they broke up tell her be honest with you if you guys are friends u know....but u should defiantly stay with him this whole thing is over she cant have him anymore its a little word i like to call ';JEALOUSY';
finders keepers...
if it's a good friend you should not have gone out with him. i would never do that to a friend, unless i knew they meant absolutely nothing to eachother anymore.





more often than not-friendships outlast relationships
Ashley, she is that way because all you girls are that way. What if it was reversed, what would you do? Things started going downhill as soon as you decided to date him. You're in a tough area young lady and I wish there was a simple answer but the truth is you are going to do what your heart tells you. You girls are very territorial when it comes yo your guys, lol. I don't think you should break up with him just so she can have him again. Because then the roles will be reversed. But that's my opinion.