Monday, August 16, 2010

My boyfriend thinks i am falling out of love...?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for two and a half years now, he thinks that I am falling out of love with him. He says that I don't act how i did when we first started dating..i told him that i don't act the same because we live together now and i see him every day, and before i used to see him like once or twice a week. I am still very much in love with him and want to marry him one day. And i don't want this to brake us up. so my question is...what should i do to let him know that i care for him???


your answers will be greatly appreciated. thanksMy boyfriend thinks i am falling out of love...?
You know, it just comes down to this...he's gonna have to trust you. You're right. After 2.5 years and living together it's NOT going to be all magical like it was in the very beginning. That's often the problem with people these days. They don't see the reality in relationships. It's not all fun and games. It should be that some of the time, and just real life the rest of the time. Look inside YOURSELF, listen to your intuition. As long as you know what you're feeling for him is true, then there's no reason to go breaking up. You may just need to sit him down and have a heart to heart about it.My boyfriend thinks i am falling out of love...?
You two should do the things that u guys did once before when u guys first knew each other. You guys should be happy that you guys get to see each other so much because unlike some people they dont get to see the ones they love all the time. Think back to the first few months and do the dumb and funny things that made both of you guys grow so close to each other
Explain to him why you're different now. Say that you're different for the better. Tell him that now that y'all live together, you feel much more comfortable with him which is why you're not trying so hard with him anymore. Tell him that you're still very much in love with him and that none of your feelings have changed. He should understand.
He wants more than what you r giving now, try holding his hand, telling him he is cute/handsome/gorgeous/nice/responsible etc say something nice to him everyday helps to keep the flame going. My gf wants me to tell her I love her everyday n I will do that with the greatest pleasure. Put some fun n humour in the relationship, being together gives you the opportunity.
-Jump him for sex randomly. Makes him know u still find him desirable.


-Show him u appreciate him bu saying thank you more when he does something for u.


-Cuddle more


-Randomly kiss him throughout the day for no reason.


-Flirt


-Compliment him


-Make him a special dinner





Just random stuff like that. Just cause u live together doesnt mean u should let the romance die. Good luck!
you should get him roses, guys like flowers.
Spend some time apart and reclaim your individuality. After a short break, you will be refreshed.
Well yew shuld make hym a surprise dinner or something special so dat he will realize dat he is very special to yew %26amp;%26amp; dat yew love hym as much as when yew guys first started going out.


hope this hepls yew! :)
have you seen FIREPROOF? try The Love Dare Book and stick to it. :) hope that helps. God will getcha through it :)
dump his ungrateful ***
just tell him you love him. if he doesn't get that, he's not for you
Do some of the things that you use to do!
poor thing. :(


you should surprise him with a special dinner
u should stay away from other men and try to be together with him as much as possible
just tell him adn do the small things that lets him know u care...
talk to him about what you just said


tell him how you feel


and maybe show a little bit more interest


thats all
well when people go about the dating process out of order this can happen. it sounds like the two of you should have gotten married then moved in together. i know that in relationships, one person can sometimes project what they are feeling on the other person. what im saying is that if he wasn't already thinking that he might not love you anymore, he wouldn't be accusing you of it. this is a sticky situation that deserves much thought. seek advice from an older woman and maybe even look into counseling from someone you both trust, especially if you guys have never been through counseling before. you guys are living together which is like being married, but you never actually went through premarital counseling or any of that stuff that people do before they commit their lives to each other. may God give you wisdom.

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