Friday, August 20, 2010

How can i make her see how much i love her?

Im 19 years old and ive had this beautiful best-friend of mine for 8 years, and to be completely honest.. she is the most amazing, drop dead gorgeous women ive ever met! God crafted a Truly unique person and everyone can see it, i mean just WOW! Anyway, we've been really good friends with her since middle school and our relationship is the best shes like my own personal therapist and comedian but i was always ok with being friends. Until we turned 13 and she was taken to a different foster house and i accidentally ran into her last year and WOW! I mean fellas 5'5, Native, naturally pitch black hair straight down to the butt, full lips, clear tan skin, a 38-40? C cup breast, a tiny nice trim waist and the most yummy, handful and THEN SOME BOOTY, with beautiful feet, and the most amazing, dark and deep eyes! just WOW! i saw her and my jaw dropped and to this day i never picked up from the ground. For months we hanged out and its nothing i've ever felt before and i had my best-friend back and it ROCKED! She's a poet, she loves climbing trees, she loves to cook and i have no complaint, shes so funny and smart, she can sing like a angel and when she dances in pow wow it will almost make you cry, she is the farthest thing from drama or gossip, loves kids and does almost every charity under the sun, i have not met one person who didnt want to be her friend, and this out-look on life that will just blow you away. but once she introduced me to her new boyfriend that i had no idea she had. It got ugly, i became jealous, hurt and imtimidated just the sight of them. And all i can possibly think is she is to good for him and within a month i realized . . I LOVE HER, She is perfect and i want her all the time, so finally i thought, its now or never. So i told her everything i even broke down and cried in front of her?(i know, what a puss) and she cracked a joke and made me luagh. Then she said shes in love.. but not with me and now i need any advice and every advice to brake em up. Cuase i just HAVE to have her i cant possibly live without her im desprate! i know for a fact i can give her everything he cant so HELP!!! PLEASE be a least a lil sympathetic for me in your answers please?How can i make her see how much i love her?
if you love her you will want her to be happy right? and if she's happy now why would you want to break them up and make her miserable. if you cant live without her just stay friends with her, better than not being in her live at all. dont become a weird green eyed monster, she will back away. just stay good friends and if things with her and her current bf dont work out and your there for her, who knows maybe something will happen between you guys:)How can i make her see how much i love her?
wow u r good ,good and get her then :)
Dont worry. I'm very sympathetic toward you. We've all been there. Sadly you have no control over whether she stays with this guy or not. If you do anything to try to come between her and her boyfriend and she finds out about it, you will have no chance because she will hate you for it.





Your only options are to either wait and HOPE she breaks up with him herself and becomes available(terrible idea, because you will be tortured)





or





do your best to deal with your emotions and date other people(your best bet).





She told you she just wants to be friends. You had better accept that even though I know its hard.
Being friends a long time is a positive. Seems like your are in love


with her physical appearence,that's also good but you and she needs


to have things in common. At 19 you had better grow up a little more.


Physical attractions are certainly not enough.She would only hate you if you got in the way of her boyfriend and her frienship. Get going with your own life, college and doing what you need to do to improve your thinking and realization of what you are doing. If you must have


a girlfriend I am sure one is close to you that you can't see for


thinking of her. GET OVER IT and go on with you life positively.
Awwwww! This is very sweet. Why didn't you tell her ahead of time? But anyway sometimes it takes longer to express feelings and to express yourself so I can understand. But she's in love now and for some females they won't change they're minds at all Love is something powerful and who knows how long they've been together, maybe things have gotten very serious in their relationship. I mean even if try to break them up how would you be helping her. She's going to probably be hurt if they ever break up and then you have to see her in tears and sad for something that you caused. Now if she was to find out that you broke her and her current boyfriend up she will probably hate you for that and give you NO PLAY. Just wait out and continue being friends with her you never what could happen in the long run. If you two are meant it will happen if not I just wish for the best. You've let her know how feel already and you don't want to keep pushing it because she might just give up on you completely. So hold in there. Remember you don't want to hurt her by making someone disappear that she's in love with, you want to love her and make her happy. Because once a relationship is over with someone you were in love with it takes time to let someone else in you heart. And with some females it takes a lot of time to get over someone. So think about everything before you make a decision to break them up. Just be her friend, love her, and make her happy; Maybe things will change. I WISH YOU BOTH THE BEST.
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