Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Ladies鈥?why do we?

You can be putting up with some real crazy stuff from a guy, and stay but as soon as your girlfriend come and confide in you, you have all the advice in the world to give her about how she should question this, and question that, break up with him for this or brake up with him for that, but what she is going through is not remotely close to the things you are putting up with from your guy. This girlfriend can confide in you about things she said in her single days she would never put up, but currently find herself doing just that, and now needs the comfort from you because she know she is going to stay, but when you confide in her about something simple your guy becomes a jerk who needs to be put in his place.





Example:





The girlfriend鈥檚 Situation: The boyfriend lied about how many times he had been married, and his age.





My Situation: The guy wanted his daughter to meet me after only dating for a couple of weeks.Ladies鈥?why do we?
it is typical fro a man to introduce you to his daughter. it is commendable, since that is his priority. he is not segragating his daughter from you. that is great. It does not mean he is serious. now if you have slept with him, yes. he prepping you to stay at his house when his daughter is there. so be mindful of what you are doing..Ladies鈥?why do we?
Everything is easier said than done.
It is alot easier to say that her man is a jerk instead of my man is a jerk. Sometimes we as in woman have blinders on and can't see what is really going on in our relationship. Also people can give advice but they can't take it. It doesn't make sense but I think we all do it. Nobody wants to see the bad in a person we are dating.
Everything is always easier said then done - especially if your not the one in the situation.
Uuuh Yeah.....Your friends problem seems worse than yours...... You're guy wants to include you in his daughter's world. He is probably testing the waters with you there....( I do that with my son, if he don't like the dude I'm dating...it's over.)


Whereas your friend's guy seems like a pathological liar, or can't be trusted. If someone can lie about something as big as being married and how old he is...there's no telling what else he's not telling her. She should get rid of hers, and you hold on to yours! It's rare to actually find a man who values his daughter's opinion,and is a good single dad.
Because the other person can see the situation without all the emotions caught up - in the real light of day, so to speak.. whereas the person who is in love has a hard time, because they see the world through ';rose colored glasses';... In response to my mom telling me what she really thought about my boyfriends.. She always told me, it's easier to love someone when you're (sleeping with) them...
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