Best Friend And Her Boyfriend?

My best friend met this guy over myspace. They started go out on September 24, 2007. Ever since that day hes just been telling her lies. He controls her and tells her what how to do it and even how to spend her money. Ive even heard him say that he doesnt want her around me. After like 2 weeks she comes out to vegas to visit me and to see and meet him for the first time. We go and pick him and and go and hang out with my boyfriend and some friends. When me, my best friend, and her good for nothing boyfriend are on the couch he puts his had on my leg and rubs my leg when she wants looking. After about 1 or 2 month they move in with her and her parents. Almost everyday she calls me crying saying her boyfriend made her cry. He disrespected me and her family and her friends. She was joking about something and he took it to serious and so they brake up. So he moves back out to vegas. She basically stalked him. She calls him and he says he doesnt want to be with her no more. Then she dates his old best friend. She talks crap about her ex boyfriend. Then they both become a couple again. Like everybody that I know and that she knows hates him. So now do your people think that I should tell her that I cant handle being friend with her anymore as long as their together.Best Friend And Her Boyfriend?
you have to do something, she is your friend she will understandBest Friend And Her Boyfriend?
I can tell you that if you say that you can't be friends as long as she is with him, it will jeopardize your friendship. But, if that is the way you feel then tell her. You could also try saving her from him by having a heartfelt conversation with her and try to make her see how he treats her. Make her understand that he makes her cry all the time and she doesn't need that. Help her get out of it.
Yeah...tell her that!


Tell her that you care enough about her to warn her form this guy. and tell her if she cares enough for you as you do for her, to get away from him. and if she's a reall friend, she will understand and do it, if not, leave her alone.
You should tell her that he has no respect for her and that she should get over him. Try matchmaking. MAybe she just needs another boyfriend to help her get over it. Maybe, eventually, she'll get over it and you can be friends again.
If everyone around them is getting abuse out of it, then they arent worth being in contact with. Even if she is your friend, if she doesnt have enough respect for herself to dump this freak and move on then what makes you think she has respect for you?
thats way too much drama and stress for you to deal with honey, i would tell her straight up that she needs to decide who is more important. this crazy bf or you. its her own mistake if she chooses him because it sounds like she wont be happy with him. good luck!
You should make it clear that he hasn't brought anything good to any of your lives


but i think you are making a good personal decision to get away from this guy- just remember your friend might need you.
well who would wanna come all the way from vegas just to meet some ';mysterious'; guy that has been lieing to her. u should just tell the truth about that guy
just kick his *** and tell him to back the **** off or hell be standing tall before the man
she will have to find out for herself, there is nothing that you can tell someone that thinks they are in love with someone how bad they are for them. the only thing that you can do is be there for her when he hurts her. if you cant take it anymore you are going to have to tell her you cant. unfortunatly you wont be able to say anything that will work. they say that loves is blind, she doesnt see what everyone else does with him and she will only change when she sees it for her self. good luck.
No, don't do that. Be a friend, be there when she needs you. She clearly is insecure and needs a man to justify herself. Just be honest with her. When she calls, don't be afraid to just tell her that she needs to get out of the relationship, that she has changed and not for the better. If you are a real friend , be honest. If he had rubbed my leg, at that very moment I would have blurted out'; why are you rubbing my leg you pervert';!!!!!! So now you just need to be a friend. You never know in your life when you might need one and even if it hurts when our friends make dumb choices, like this guy, it still is a good person to be a good friend and be the better person, at least then you can have self respect of knowing the kind of person you are.