Would you be ok with your bf/gf living with someone the opposite sex?

Ok, my boyfriend of over nine months, is planning on sharing a house with his friend amanda. They have always been close... and he says its just the way thier friendship is when i question him on what seems like possible flirty behavoir.





However, my boyfriend recenly had to move to florida with his parents, and i reall want him back, and the only way possible right now is if he and amanda share a place.


So im kind of mixed up on feelings.





I think, im going to do the whole, not guilty until proven otherwise thing, and let them do it.





a few months into our relationship, he cheated on me. (more emotioally then physicaly but still) and though we have gotten past that, i think its left a scar in my trust.








How would you guys feel if it your other was going to do it.


how would you feel if you were the one going to move in?





Im trying to see it both my way and his.





Also, im not going to brake up with him, and though our relationship isnt perfact (and ill be the first one to admit that) i dont need you guys saying things like that. I love him, and i want to at least try to work through everyhtingWould you be ok with your bf/gf living with someone the opposite sex?
i would deffo feel uneasy about it mateWould you be ok with your bf/gf living with someone the opposite sex?
If you're not going to break up with him over it, then you've gotta let him move in with the girl.





Honestly, I'd be a little uncomfortable with it too, but if you trust him, then you have to let him do this. If you're unsure whether you trust him, though, that's the hard part.





You have to risk getting hurt again, or having this make your relationship stronger in the end.





Good luck.
no matter if my bf is rooming with a girl that is like a ';sister'; to him i would never be ok with it.


you never know what happens when you stick to ppl of the opposite sex together no matter if one is ulgy and the other is hot.


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I wouldn't be ok with it. Not even for just trust purposes.. it just looks wrong.





I don't think you should break up with him, he can make his own decisions. And I guess it would bring him closer to you. Just don't be surprised if it doesn't end well.
Living with a random member of the opposite sex is one thing. My boyfriend lived with two girls and a guy last year and it was no problem for me because they were all 100% platonic friends.





But if he's cheated on you in the past and you know they're close, I'd be wary about this. You can't tell him what to do, so if this is absolutely what he wants then you have to let him. But be sure to tell him how apprehensive this makes you and let him know how you feel about the situation.
That is giving him the opportunity. Plutonic friendships are never really plutonic. Most of the time the guy likes the girl but does so secretly so he will never have to face the feeling of being shut down. Who knows what will happen when they get too drunk together.


Also, why is it that the only way he can stay is if he moves in with her? That seems a bit fishy, like that is what he wants you to believe. I'm sure if he checks Craigslist he can find another roomate. fact is, he only wants her to be his roomate.





This guys intentions are very clear

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