How do you know if you really have to brake up with your boyfriend or not?

Well last wednesday he call me and we started fighting and he said all this mean stuff but their is something that I'm concern about he said I don't care about your life I don't care about anyones life I care abou't my life,and he said you have something that I Don't have I'm like what and he said a family.How do you know if you really have to brake up with your boyfriend or not?
It sounds like he only cares about himself at this point. You can't help him with that. I think that you need to take care of yourself, and find someone who cares about you.How do you know if you really have to brake up with your boyfriend or not?
When you have to make efforts to keep the relation moving.


When you have to find reasons to meet him or her.


When you have to explain your actions.





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It sounds like your boyfriend has a lot of issues that need to be resolved before he can have a relationship. Not caring about his life is not a good thing. If he's not in some kind of counseling he shoul be. It sounds like he doesn't have any family...if he lives with an adult try talking to them about what he said and mention counseling. If you can talk to a priest or get him to talk to one that would be very helpful. Tell your parents about your conversation and ask for their help also. They may be able to point you and him in the right direction. Good luck to you and your boyfriend.
wow that's wow well if he said mean thing to you maybe because you have a family and he doesn't and he just wants one and that's why he was being mean or he just doesn't like you any more but you should try to talk to him
Maybe he just needs affection, don't break up with him yet,try and find out if he loves u first, and not just for your family.
What a charmer. Sure wish my guy was hystrionic like that.





By the way, I only brake with cars, although I brake for animals.
Look, if ya'll make up then you have to make sure that no arguments will happen, then if they do you break up. I don't mean the occoaisonal spat i mean ARGUING. If he said th@ then i would break up. But the best thing u can do is be there for him right now.
ummmmmmmm i think hes just upset because he doesnt have a family? you should try to comfort him.
You know you have to break up with your boyfriend if you can think of three really good reasons why the relationship isn't working out. No, not reasons like idiotic nervous habits he does, but things like he's started hiding more things from you, or he's stopped kiss you as much as he used to, or the sparks in the relationship have seen to die down.
well if i were you i would stay with him a little longer and let your family get close to him. you will see a dramatic change in the way he acts ,because he's happy.
he just needs someone to be there for him to Love him and have his back in time of need but you no when you need to break with someone when you can't take it anymore when things just isn't working out and you say am tired i don't want to do this anymore
ok this is a very scary situation that you have to take very carefully I know that the boyfriend has many issues


and the first sounds like abandonment...he may have been in a family where he was unwanted/rejected and at this point it sounds like he needs therapy to resolve his issues of anger this is a very scary situation for you because he can turn that anger on himself ie suicide or on you I don`t know how old you are but heres my suggestion be his friend he does need your friendship but state that you`ll be there for him if he gets help also for safetys sake tell someone you can trust your situation and if thats a police officer do that they need to know in case this gets outta hand but say that you want to be helpful not get them involved to freak him out and ask if they can direct you to getting help for him
when he says something like that
Woah... that sounds really messed up. If all he cares about is himself, then he does not know what it means to be in a relationship.
Well right now he is actin like he only cares about his self but that last part the family. Maybe you have something that he wants but never had. I believe that he just wants a family to care about him be the missing part of his life and you can provide that for him.
if it feels right it is if it doesn't its not, move on!
eh sounds complicated, you sound young.do you need the hassle? your heart should tell you
wow, maybe he's just freaking out.....uh if he does it again dump him.....wow. follow ur heart (korny as it sounds) GOOD LUCK!
If you have to ask ... then yes you probably should break up. Trust your instincts.
well if u want to break up with him just tell him sorry but i cant do this anymore. and if u do its his loss to be acting that way to his gf.
i think that u can break up wit him but jus b Friends so u can comfort him cuz he dont have a family
when you realize that he doesnt care about your feelings anymore and learn that u are not happy. the way i see it if your boyfriend cant see that u are miserable or that something is lacking then i suggest that u look for someone else that would care about how u feel, its important in a relationship.