How long did it take for you to get over your last serious boyfriend/girlfriend?

why did you brake up? would you ever get back with them? how many chances would you give them?How long did it take for you to get over your last serious boyfriend/girlfriend?
I think sometimes there are people in you life that you meet and will never get over. I've dated plenty after my first love, and am in a committed relationship now. However, this person still holds a place in my heart. I can say that still love him and thankful to have had him in my life.


We broke up because we were young. We were together for a long time and we just became bored with each other in a way. The relationship became routine and neither of us knew anything else. 5 years later there came a time when we might have gotten back together. But mostly it was on a hope that we could be what we wanted in the past instead of what we really were. We were in love with the idea of us, but clearly we had both moved on and matured.


I think when if comes to chances you have to be true to yourself. If the other person does something that hurts you enough that you think you no longer can be with the person, you have to decide are you doing it for you or them. And is it only for the hope of something better. Sometime love isn't enough, and you can only hold onto the idea and want for the other person to become who you want them to, or you think they can be.How long did it take for you to get over your last serious boyfriend/girlfriend?
I had a girlfriend when I was 24 madly in love with she cheated on me 4 times and I took her back on the forth time she came back I said goodbye. I then got married and divorced and 20 years later she found me again I was single and I took her back and boy did I ever regret it. It was insanity for me to have even tried after the second time she had left me so they say love is blind and sometimes it's true I found out the hard way. So give them as many chances as you want but if you can't trust them then it's over with for me.
I'm not sure I'm over him yet.


Broke up with him for a lot of reasons..cheating and my friends kept telling me what a waste he was and at the time I was young and didnt think he was what I wanted [I blame on being young and naieve]


I got back with him several times but that was mostly because he kept bugging and I kept softening up [we were together a year been apart for 2 or 3 and I think about him all the time


I believe everyone deserves a second chance [he's had a lot]


But I guess it depends on if you really still love him or love the idea of him [there was a period of time when I dint have him and I didnt think of him much as I had someone else]


Is it woth it??


And always remember they are an ex for a reason and love is not everything
I think it took me about a month or two to completely get over my ex. He was busy with work so slowly we stopped spending as much time together than all of a sudden he had absolutely no time for me and stopped talking to me altogether. I would never get back with him because I gave him what he wanted and I felt so betrayed afterwards that I dont think he would be worth another shot. Plus, I am with someone else whom I am very happy with.
we broke up because of the distance that had occurred between us and it as hard for us to connect on any other level bar physical we did part on good teams and we both have said in time wen we have finished or growing up that yes we would give it another go I'm a very 1 chance person if he had messed up once like cheated then no i wouldn't give him a second chance but as this was for the best for both people yes i will give him a second chance i don't think u ever reli get over a person u feel deeply for u will move on but u do always wonder wat if
Took me quite a long time. At least a year. I gave her one chance and she screwed up again so I had to cancel the arrangement. Let's just say she liked attention a little too much. Like the saying goes, ';fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me';. She fooled me twice but I learned a lot of priceless lessons from that relationship.
It took me two weeks for it to stop feeling like someone was holding a knife through my heart. After the two weeks (no contact at all) I started to realize I was indeed going to live...and move on. After a month I was still healing but doing pretty good....keeping busy etc... How many chances would I give? None. An ex is an ex for a reason...and obviously if he's capable of hurting me that bad he doesn't cover my wants and needs. It means theres someone else that is the right one out there waiting for me, so I move on....hard as it is.
A few months. I think when I start going out with a girl in the future, I will initially be nervous but hopefully she will like me for what I am and trust me and be loyal to me as I would be to her.
Been apart from my husband 3 years still miss him, he cheated on me but has supported the children and I above and beyond what he should and this at times confuses me, think I would take him back.
we broke up cuz we weren't happy any more... i gave him 7 chances and no i will never get back with him... and it took me like 6 months
been split up with mine for 15 years but still love him to bits





Everyone since him has not been the same