Me and my boyfriend haven't been going out for a long time but he is so annoying and i just cant take it anymore but i don't know how to tell him i don't like him anymore without hurting him to muchHow to brake up with your boyfriend?
Be honest. I had a really annoying b/f a long time ago, one thats haunted me since lol. Towards the end I didn't like him either. I told him strait, he cried, but then bothered me alot afterwards. To make them really go away you have to be strait and to the point, even if it does hurt. If he has any feelings for you hes going to keep trying to get you back if your soft. It's unfortunate but alot of guys out there (I keep thinking of MY annoying ex) don't understand that things are really over because us girls break up with them in a nice way making them think there is still a chance. You should know the best way to talk to him better than we do. Use his words meaning talk in his language. Breaking up sucks because it makes someone upset doesn't really matter if he cared for you he's going to be hurt anywaysHow to brake up with your boyfriend?
First of do it in person. I last broke up with mine for the same reason. Thing is i regretted it. So think it through wisely. then tell him to meet you somewhere. Don't say ';we need to talk'; those are the 4 most feared words in relationship so DON';T say it. Then talk a little but don't lead him on. And say ';so i've been thinking a lot and im just not that into you anymore,'; or even better, ';i just don't have the same feelings for you as i did before.'; and also include that you would still like to be friends.
First of all you come first before anyone else's feelings! It sould be harder to brake it off with a fiance than a boyfriend. Stop feeling sorry...tell him what you would want.....the truth! You can turn this sweet oh guy into a phsyco....THINK....now. Don't lead anyone on, like you wouldnt want someone to lead you....???? Keep it real and you shoull be respected for that. ';I kid you not'; Dont even offer to be friends right away. PLEASE give it some time. Give each other some space. In your eyes your already treating him like a friend so what's the point???? GOOD LUCK
Maby hes just nervouse and needs a chance just give him a chance tell him what you dont like about him and if he dousint change end it.
i wish i had a second chance my girl freinds just broke up with me it hert alot and yea so invite him over to watch a movie and see what happens i mean i garintee he is just nervouse
i did:
Me:whats your least favorite color?
Him: Black
Me: I love Black i just LOVE it!!
Him: Uh..ok?
Me: Whats your least favorite store?
Him: Nordstrom
Me: OMG I loove Nordstrom its my favorite store!!!
And so on..he finally got the point
tell him quick, the sooner the better, and tell the truth, it just ain't happening for you
just tell him that its not working out and hopefully he will understand. ask his friends first to see what they say about it.
Good luck :-))
I don't think is going to work out is a good one.
make sure whatever you do, it is in person, NOT via text or facebook
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