How to responed back to a ex boyfriend?

hey.. i need your help... so my ex boyfriend broke up with me a month a go.. it was long distance relationship.. he was on vacation for a month no he just came back and text me that he wanted to tell me something but had to email it... so when i received the email it was saying how much he wanted to thank me.. he was in the iraq for a 1 year while we were together... and i was supported him throw it all.. i use to send he anything he wanted... i was a good girl friend to him... i really don't know why he broke up with me right after he came home.. but anyway i wanted to know how do i respond to this email he sent me... he was thanking me for been there for me .. and he also said that i was the most sweeties person he ever meet. and that he wishes that i will find someone good like me because i deserve that... he also said that he was sorry for beening a dick to me after the brake up... i really don't know want to say to that.. so can you help me?How to responed back to a ex boyfriend?
He was probably going through depression on his return -something a lot of us suffered from directly after getting out of the military. No one hates war more than a soldier. If you love him, just respond back by saying that you love him and are also sorry things turned out the way they did.





If you don't love him any longer just tell him that you wish him all the best and thank him for the memories you will always have.How to responed back to a ex boyfriend?
Tell him he's a wimp for not telling you to your face or over the phone. He dumped you cuz now that he is back he is going to make up for lost time. I think too you were the only one around during his time of need so he held on. His lose and tell him karma will repay him for his devious ways.
He was giving you closure. He was thanking you for being so supportive of him when he was over there in iraq. He was just showing you his appreciation.
say nothing, its over, he thanked you for helping him, done
Tell him thank you %26amp; sorry thing did not work out but wish him the best
Perhaps he has lived his life in such a way the past few years that make him feel unworthy of you, but he wants to let you know that he feels bad about it, and doesn't want you to think badly of him, because he does appreciate you.





Doesn't sound like he wants to get back together; just that he doesn't want you to hate him for how he treated you. Give him that, if you are not too into hating on him.





Sounds like he needs time to himself to sort through his life and decide what to do next. You can tell him that you appreciate what he's said, and you wish him the best of luck, too. That way he won't feel obligated to keep things going via text or whatever. Unless he wants to.





Sometimes it is best to let go, and if he wants to be with you at some point you can reassess how you feel about him at that time.
It is useless and pointless to say anything bad right now. He is off fighting a war in another country, and is probably not ';himself'; - you know what I mean.





He owned up to treating you badly and is apologizing for it. The fact that he didn't do it face to face - you know, sometimes all we are capable of is an email, so take it at face value and trust him at his word.





Write to him. Thank him for his email, tell him that it did your heart good to hear that you helped him, that you will pray for his safe return home when his tour is up, and that you wish him the best as well.





THAT is how a mature adult handles a letter like his.





*big hug* and best of luck to you
I'm really not sure why your asking this question in marriage and divorce. But as far as a responce, it seems really cruel to me for someone to break up with you and then write you heartfelt notes. For him to tell you how good you are, etc. etc. etc. doesn't matter. He broke up with you and he needs to move on and stop trying to keep you on his emotional, control, power trip. He is a cruel and self centered person....there, tell him that. Don't get sucked into his emotional drama.