Can a brake up make a relationship stronger?

I am going to write about my life situation and i would like for someone to give me some good advices. Those of you with mean intention pleases stay away, cause i am looking for meaningful answers.








My boyfrien and I have een together for almost a year now this coming up August will be a year for us our year mark. Things have been rocking for us, we've been through so much that it is unbeleiveable. I am 22 years old and he is 16 years older than me. I do have a preferences for older guy, so the age defference is not a bother for me.





As individuals, we are alot alot defferent, but also we do have similar qualities. When we first met, I was only involve with white guys, cause until i met him and i realized there is some good black man out there. As for him it has been the same he only had white boyfriend and guys he messed with in the past were all white. So when we first met it was a big schoked to the both of us.Not that i have anything against black people, i just never met the right one. After all i am carribean myself and he is african american.





I do love him, and i know for a fact that he is really in love with me, but for some reasons i just don't beleive him, i have assumed that he was cheating, which was a big mistake of mine, i hve accused him of it 3 times in in 3 day back to back. Yes i am a very skeptival person. But he has shown me in so many ways how much he cares and wants me in his life.





He wants to make a life with me, he wants to be the one and the only man in my life. I want the same as well but there are those 2 liltle voices inside of me that are talking to me. One wants to stay and remain by his side the other wants to go and explore the world. But honestly i don't want to leave him what so ever. Yes i want him to understand me much more, i want him to know that i need to have some kind of conversation going in other to feel at ease, I need a more active sex life a one on one thing, cause i want to keep my health sane don't want to add to my list neither does he, I want him to understand that in a relationship tpersonality needs to be altered from time to time. I have thougt that maybe a brake up could help us get back stronger and see that their is potential but we will need to make lots of effort to work things out. But honestly i dunno if this is the correct way of telling him that i want to have changes made in our relationship.





So can someone tell me honestly how to apraoch such a delicate situation, Because int he gay world it is quite hard if not impossible to find a man who truly love you with a passion.





If there is any guys out there in a relationship with an age defference i would gladly accept your advices.





Love,





LKCan a brake up make a relationship stronger?
You need to sit him down %26amp; tell him what you are feeling and let him know the things that need to be changed or altered in order for you to feel secure with the relationship. Those little voices that you are hearing is just you second guessing yourself. Follow your heart and your instinct - your ';gut-feeling';- it will tell you what is right for you. Breaking up with him could just blow the whole thing altogether and he may never come back, which you obviously don't want. If he loves you the way you say he does, then he will listen and work with you to make things better and your relationship stronger. Good Luck and Best Wishes....Can a brake up make a relationship stronger?
Probably you mean break-up not brake up coz' I thought you are referring to a brake of a car!
even the slightest thought of breaking up with someone means that it will never work so you should move on unless you want the same result over and over again, however says that breaking up with someone can make a relationship stronger is most likely only saying it because they want to believe it themselves.