Do I brake up with him? Urgent?

Well, me and this guy have been going out for almost two years, and about 15 months ago I got raped and I got pregnant, and when the police found out about it the guy went to jail and my boyfriend was there to help me take care of the baby, well that went well, I had the baby and me and this guy are still together, when we had problems we just took a week brake up and he was pretty upset because I didn't call him and he had no contact with my son which he calls his own. Well, he went to this party and his ex was there and they got drunk and now she is pregnant he told me yestarday and was very upset about it, I told him that I would be here for him if he needed a shoulder to cry on and when he asked me was I still his girlfriend I told him, talk to your baby mamma for a while and let's see how this turns out, I am really hurt and somewhat mad but what do I do I am in LOVE.Do I brake up with him? Urgent?
If you drink, drink with responsibility. And he didn't do that. And like you didn't decide to have sex but he did. He decided, not you or the other girl but him. And I am very sorry that this happened to you. This is probably very hard for you because you Think you love him. But you shouldn't love him. You deserve better I know I don't even now you but every girl deserves a good man and you do definitely. So move on. You deserve better.Do I brake up with him? Urgent?
k it was a wrong thing for him to sleep with him ex but try looking it this way. that when he went to the party and he got drunk with him ex do you ever think that she had planned it all alone and maybe she plan to sleep with him in order for both of you to end the relationship.





But in order words if you really love him and he really loves you and he wants to keep the relatinship going , i think you it best to give him another chance, think about it if he wants to be with you not her, then it shows who he really wants to be with.
Don't let love blind you. You two don't stay together so it is possible he's been seeing his ex all along, but i suggest you give him a chance to proof himself and don't let your guard too low. I like what he did for you when you needed him he was there for , but that does not mean you must take every sh*t from him. Good luck girlfriend!!
I say do not break up with him, so he slept with someone while you were taking a break.. it happens.


It is a good idea to talk to him and see what he wants.. you or her.. also he needs to talk to her and figure somethings out.


It is not the sperm donor that makes a Dad, it is the actions of the man and he is your childs Dad and he is going to be a father again.


Make sure that if you choose be with him this is something you will have to ';forgive'; its not something you can be mad about forever. You should also be willing to welcome the other child into your home and love it too.
i am so sorry to hear abt whatever happened with you. it must be terrible!





Well abt your situation, he does seem to be a nice guy but, going and having sex with his ex when he was still in a relationship with you, just bec you both had a fight doesnt justify it.





He may have been drunk or whatever, if you like him for the way he stood by you and took responsibility of your child, think that he will do the same for his ex, and may be more bec it will be his own child.





The next time you both will have a fight, do u think u wont think even once that he night be with his ex? i know sweety you are in love, but it is better to have heartache once and for all than live everyday feeling insecure and scared.





Let him go, if after sometime he still feels strongly for you and if you are not seeing anyone else, reconsider it then





All the best.
you are in love with someone that cheated on you with his ex. I would say that the feeling isn't mutual. And you being raped and getting pregnant is far different than him impregnating his exfriend after a fun night at a party. VERY different and you should be able to see that. Dump him. He is a creep. Who does that??
if ur in love with him just tell him how u feel about him
Personally, i don't think it'd really be fair to him for you to break up with him becase of one indiscrepancy - especially diring a time when you were ';taking a break';. Had the two of you actually been together as a couple durign that time, then I would say forgive him and give him another chance as he has been very giving to you and your son. You'll find that when you truly love a person, you learn to let a lot of stuff that ordinarily would be ending seem trivial.