How do you know if you love the girl that your with?

I THINK i love her but im not entirely sure.... She loves me DEFIANATLY.... that much is obvious. I tell her i love her and stuff, but i'm just not sure i mean it any more....its taken me a long time to get her.. i had to make her brake-up with her THEN boyfriend....And i just feel guilty that shes with me and i mite not even love her.... HELP PLEASE!How do you know if you love the girl that your with?
Don't feel guilty, She broke it off with her ex because she didn't like him anymore. If she did liked her ex then she wouldn't of broken it off for another guy. You shouldn't be with someone who you do not love.How do you know if you love the girl that your with?
If you love her, then you know it. If you are unsure, then you don't.


It can also depend on age. If you are young this was clearly a puppy love but now you are just messing with her feelings.


If you are going to break up with her ( wich I think you should do if you care for her but don't love her) there is the asshole way and the b*tchy way.


Asshole: You act like a total asshole until she dumps you and you can spare her some tears ( ok well a few..)


B*tch: You tell her this a dump her, she will cry for a long time and always hate you.


You sound like a really sweet guy, you'll just have to clear your mind a figure out the best way.


Best of luck xox.
If you don't know, the answer is probably no. When you're in love, you just know. I can't explain it, but it's like a light bulb comes on in your head and the realization hits you. You don't have to think about it; you just know.
Does she make you laugh?





Does she compliment you?





When you think of her do you smile?





If she died tomorrow how would you feel?





What would you do if she got kidnapped?
You might just like her as a friend. I guess you should let her know that instead of telling her you dont love her.