How Do I brake up with my boyfriend?

I've been dating this guy for 9 months and at first it started out so good but now I feel like our love has grown apart. I can't take it anymore! I want to be able to date other guys or just be single for a while but how do I brake it up???? If their is anyone men or women that can give me advide please feel free to give me your opinions.


I called him today in the morning he had just woke up and I told him that I will calll him later because I just didnt know how to brake up with him PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!How Do I brake up with my boyfriend?
Just let him know that you met ';BIG DADDY';, he will know that it is over. He will know his life line ran out. bdHow Do I brake up with my boyfriend?
simple. tell him exactly how you feel. thats a break up starter.
a part of u want to break up with him while the other part doesnt, think it through so that u can make the right decision.


stand up to him and tell him the reason why u want to break up with him.
just hit the brakes
I just did the same thing - was dating a guy for 6 months and didn't know how to break up with him - so I chickened out and sent an email - but I followed it up saying that I would call him after he got off work to talk about it. I can't say it was the most elegant way to do it, but I was able to take my time writing an email that conveyed how I felt, and was able to get some of the emotion out of it that I knew I was going to have to deal with if I talked to him face to face.





Good luck - it isn't easy, but my ex is doing things right now that makes me extremely happy that I finally did it (I drug it out for 2 months before doing it).
Just tell him he's a loser and your done with him.
Tell him that the relationship is just not working out for you. Try to save his ego by saying something like ';I just do not feel ready for a serious relationship at this time in my life'; ';its not you its me'; ect... Do not tell him its because you want to be with other guys.
';I called him today in the morning he had just woke up and I told him that I will calll him later because I just didnt know how to brake up with him';





You just did.
Be honest with him. Tell him you feel like you've grown apart and your feelings for him have changed and you don't want to waste his time or mislead him by staying in a relationship you're not happy with.
Tell him that you feel that your love has grown apart and you just be single for a while. I wouldnt say that you want to date other guys because hes going to want to know who. You can say ';Its me and its not you'; but we know its not you and it is us so I wouldnt bother. Then say we are breaking up. Make sure you use those words.





I would do it over the phone. Its not better face to face. Definitely do not do it by email. Then he gets to read it over and over and over and re experience the pain as often as his depressed mind wants to. There is nothing to talk about. Talking about it is continuing the relationship which you have decided not to do. You dont argue with him and you dont try to fix his feelings. And you dont have contact with him for a long while. He needs to move on and you dont want to give him any false hope that you are going to get back together. Hes going to be hurting and you are not the one that can fix that. He will get over you, but the only thing you can do to help that is let him do it without you. You can be friendly again in 2 or 3 years, but probably not friends.





This is hard but its what you have to learn how to do if you are going to date and find the right person to share your life with. In the final analysis, breaking up with someone that you dont want to be with is a loving action. You are no longer wasting his time and letting him go free so he can find the person that he is truly meant to be with. Remember that when he gets mad or starts doing drive bys.
Chances are he knows what鈥檚 up. Unless you are dating a guy who is dumb as a doornail I鈥檓 sure he knows it too. But there are two ways to go about this, the blunt way, and the nice way. The blunt way is reserved for someone who is A) Goddess like, and knows she can have any man she wants B) doesn鈥檛 care if she gets pegged as a man eater. And yes these woman will tell you flat out that they are done with you and are looking for higher ground. The nice way is for someone who A) Still cares about the person enough to spare there feelings B) Doesn鈥檛 want to come off as a selfish person, or a man eater. I am thinking you are wanting to be nice about it so here is some advice to help you. First thing you need to do is make sure you don鈥檛 do it over the phone or through a text. This shows that you are not mature enough to face him or even really honor what you two had in the past. Second you need to establish a place where you are going to break it off with him.





This factor depends on the kind of person he is. If he likes to get loud and mad then you need to choose a place where you know he will be less likely to do that. Public place like a coffee shop, that way if he needs to go, he can just go and not make a scene. If he is the quiet type then by all means do it where you know you two are alone. Not secluded but at either of your homes. Now understand that you don鈥檛 need to give him a detailed answer, but you should give him something. Be honest with him. He may say that he can change and what not, but stick to your guns and let him know that you no longer want to date. You may seem like the jerk, but your being as honest as you can and you don鈥檛 owe him anything. Hope this helps.





-Ty
I dont wanna date you anymore
just tell him it's over thats what i say