How to reassure a guy your not braking up with them?

okay so this is my problem.





My boyfriend and i have been dating almost 9 months we dated for 5 months a couple years ago. He is very attached, I've been sitting at my house alone for the last couple weeks, with nothing to do no car or anything, my friend asked me to go to a carnival with her and then the next day to a little fourth of July party only a few people are going, most are girls. My boyfriend has been cheated on by every girl he's dated, so hes very scared im going to do the same. ( my boyfriend has also cheated though, thats why we broke up the first time) He's so afraid that he thinks im going to cheat on him at the carnival i know it sounds crazy but, he just think like that, i can't go out or do anything im determined to make this work, how can i reassure him im not like those other girls?How to reassure a guy your not braking up with them?
make out with himHow to reassure a guy your not braking up with them?
Oh. Wow.


Sorry, that last part was kind of unexpected.


He shouldn't be holding you back from hanging out with your friends and having fun. If he is, then you need to let him know that you wouldn't cheat on him, because if you did and you guys broke up, then your child wouldn't have a father.


(Even though you could always get with the other guy, but don't tell him that.)
You are pregnant with his child. That means that you are in wayyyy to deep for it to even matter if you break up or not. From this point on you are connected to him forever. So I dont think your biggest issue is making him believe that you arent going to break up with him. Your biggest thing is now telling him that you are pregnant. Do that first, and THEN figure out the status of your relationship.