What to do when your ex-boyfriend says he hates you.?

Ok help. Im only 14 and ive been dating a guy for like 7 months.. we were semi serious and he said he loved me.. then we broke up (2 weeks ago) cause he said he likes anouther girl (he went to high school i stayed in middle school) but even though he said he liked her he still wanted to be with me.. weve been on and off for 7 months.(4 brake ups) but.. now he says he hates me.. and hes telling all his friends (who just so happen to be my friends) that im ugly.. and the awkward part is that he comes to my shcool to pick up his brother and plus his mom is a teahcer so hes always there..what should i do when i see him..? since he hates me.. and how do i get over him?What to do when your ex-boyfriend says he hates you.?
He's your ex so F-Bomb him and the horse he rode in on ya know? Don't acknowledge his existence when you see him because he's made it clear he wants nothing to do with you any more plus he's being an ****** about it too.What to do when your ex-boyfriend says he hates you.?
He's going through a strange time in his life. It's an ego thing. He doesn't want to associate with a jr high person cause he is now a man about town, or so he thinks. He is trying to find his place in his new world. As for you, don't worry about him. Once you are in high school you'll also be going through a strange time. You'll need to find your own place in this new world. Just keep your own head on straight and study.
I know this sounds stupid, but agree with him if he says stuff to you.


For example: If he says he hates you, say


';ok, no worries';


or ';yep, that's nice';





He will get the idea that you just don't care about him. Also don't give him any time....so if he starts talking to you, just say


';i have to go, bye';


or ';sorry, can't talk right now, bye';


and walk off.





Being ignored is the worst thing ever! But showing that you just don't care is even worst!





See how you go, best of luck!
Try to move on and know that guys can be cruel in the midst of a break up. He obviously didnt think that you were ugly for 7 months. He is just trying to hurt you and you shouldnt let him or at least dont let him know that ur hurting. Your young there will be many many more fish in the sea to choose from.
smile slightly/raise your eyebrows as if to say 'hi' for when you see him through the day





hold your head high, and walk. act like you dont want him. act like you dont need him. show him your having fun.





********* like him destory a woman, so go out have fun and get yourself a new boyfriend!
That's a hard question to answer... he probably doesn't really hate you in all my situations anyway with break ups they are usually just trying to make themselves feel better. I would act like he doesn't even exist see how he likes being on the other end of the stick.
he sounds really immature and i wouldn't pay him any mind, i wouldn't give him the satisfaction of mentioning to any of your common friends, bascially pretend like he don' exist. i know it's hard but, that's what will bother him the most!
Just ignore him and give yourself time to get over him, you'll be fine, you dont need a jerk like that in your life.
tell him to go suck his own dick and find someone better. you deserve to be treated way better.
Ignore him I know its hard but thats the only way.
1)DO NOT TALK TO HIM- if you have to, be civil


2)friends- get dressed up, and go out


3)music- sad break up songs when you're depressed, and when you get angry-


le disko by shiny toy guns


hot **** by sid maudlin


Just a Girl- No Doubt


Happy Now- No Doubt


4)Flirt! Boosts self esteem.


5)read The Rules- I'm 16 and have no problem dating, but this still helped A LOT. Next time you're in a book store, give it a look! It's a great book:]





other than that, give it time. and forget him- you can do better.